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I am 24, have slept with 20 people, and
I am 24, have slept with 20 people, and I have never had an **, except for when I'm using a **. WTF is wrong with me? My husband's ** is not small, and he works his ** off trying to make me **, and it just doesn't happen. I have to fake it every night. I need help.
You better quit faking, cause then he will think he is getting you off! There are many things you can try. If you can only ** from a **, buy one of those vibrating rings to go around the base of your man's **. When he thrusts into you you will feel the ** on your **, and hopefully **!
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I'm a male and I had this one girlfriend who was honest with me that she couldn't get any ** with me or her previous lovers either. She enjoyed it as far as she could but after I was done, she had to use a ** on her ** to achieve **. I felt like such a failure even though it wasn't my fault.
Maybe you need a blackman?
use your hands
can I try?
I wass in the same situation. Then I told a friend and here was her advise... Start by building up your muscles down there... when you pee try to stop mid flow - do this until you can easily stop your pea. Then while you are having **, flex that muscle that you use to stop peeing. Also - don't hold your breath during **, breath normal or faster than normal. And if that doesn't work - go on top and roll your hips back and forth instead of up & down. (PS - My friend is in the medical field and has lots of knowledge about the female parts - muscles brething and all). It worked for me!
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Normal, normal, normal! Although a little frustrating. You need to use your own, or his fingers as well - at the same time that he's sliding in and out.
Incidentally, I had an amazing ** in the shower this morning. I know it's no substitute for intimacy and bonding with your partner, but I switched the nozzle to these power, short bursts of water and flicked it across and back, and WOW! It seemed to last a very long time, too. Perhaps it was a multiple **?
Totally normal. If you lose the idea of this unattainable goal, you'll enjoy ** much more. I stopped trying to come years ago.
Sounds normal to me.
Something like 70% of women can only come by clitoral stimulation and not through **. I'd be willing to bet a pretty fair number of those women can only ** by their own hand as well.