I hate my stepson w/ a passion! His

I thought it was just me. I struggle with my step son. He is rude and disrespectful and has been allowed to do what he wants when he wants. Now he’s in school he’s not allowed to behave like that. So now the real problems start. His mother bad mouths his father in front of him if she doesn’t get her own way. Very nasty lady!!

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I hate my stepson with a passion as well he never baths and smells very bad his whole body it so dirty... He does not live with us but I have to work with him the more I see him the more I become a nasty person I don't want to go with him any where he also drinks loads of alcoholic beverages and embaraces us his rude and has used bad lauguage against me, but my husband just sweeps it under the carpet everything... I have had enough of him...

Mine is almost 12. Doesn't brush his teeth, shower, or wash hoa hands unless we tell him to every single day. He is beyond lazy and does not listen for **. He lacks common sense to the fullest. His dad calls him dumb and stupid in Spanish so he does not understand. He lies about everything. If he were my kid, I would slap the ** out of him. I do not HATE him like almost all of you say you hate your stepson. I love him. He is just nasty and lazy and a liar. I check his ** every day. It is tiring.

I'm so happy I found this!!! I hate my husband's twin boys that are 5 with a passion. They are just vial and nasty little boys. Master manipulators!!!! Sweet and nice in front of their dad to get what they want. The little a**holes are potty trained but will ** their pants and rub it all over my walls. They cuss me and my 10 year old son as well as bite, kick, stomp, spit and hit us. They live with their piece of ** mother that teaches this stuff to them to get their way. I'm just thankful they live across the country and I have not have to look at the little sob's since last Christmas. I just wish I never had to look at them ever again. They make us all miserable. My husband finally caught how they were acting last time they were here and instead of us keeping them when they came for a visit they went to their grandparents home. I just wish he would work up the courage to sign his rights over. I hate those little pieces of s*@t.

Haha i totally understand but those little pieces of ** are his kids. I am sure he loves them

I hate my stepson so much i wish my wife could preform a 16 year old abortion.
he's basically gay and uses his gayness as currency to get guilty mom to buy or do anything he wants. i don't care that he's gay because he's so worthless not even a 60 year old queen would want his ** worthless **..

Omg, i'm so glad i found this! i don't feel so alone! ditto pretty much everything said here... dirty, messy, disrespectful, can't-tell-him-anything, lazy, stupid, unorganized, zero common sense with a stupid dirty dog and a gambling addiction. And I can't say anything. I'm done.

I've been with my wife for almost 6 years now. We constantly fight about her lazy ** pig son. He works full time pays nothing in rent does absolutely nothing around the house and has his girlfriend eat over every other day and when I say something about anything his mother gets all ** off and points out my faults instead I've ** had it with him and his disgusting face. His room is something you'd see from a ** pig leaves his garbage and used condoms snot rags all over his floor and god forbid I mention it to his mother. I've ** had it im at my breaking point I feel like ripping his face off. Useless son of a **.we have other younger kids in the house and i will not have them live with him . I'm actually depressed and I've lost all interest with everything!

Your not alone ! I feel exactly the same way with my step son who is nothing more than an oxygen thief . I don’t think he’ll ever leave home and his mommy’s breast even though it’s now 21. Won’t go into detail but the organic blob is the sort of thing only it’s mother could love . Hate the **!

My POS SS is also almost 21 and I cannot stand his guts. He lives with us , and his father refuses to move him out. Dirty, nasty , sneaky , SOB!!! It has been over two years now, since he moved in from overseas to live with us, but still his father thinks it’s too early for him to move out, since he has only a student visa, and also applied for his green card. God knows only when the green card will be approved, it may take years. And his loving father is waiting for the green card to come, so he can move his ** out. In the meantime, I’m going crazy, depressed to the maximum with a toddler all day in the house , doing everything for them, anxious and feeling angry and sad 24/7, because of this SOB!!!

Ditto my friend. My step son is a "thug wannabe". He was running around with some trash from the projects and almost got arrested once. For some reason I stopped him from talking to the police which would've gotten him arrested, but that was the first time he got into trouble of that nature and I thought he'd change, NOPE! Still runs with the homies and his mother thinks he's not when I know ** good and well he is. I've given up on the little ** and his mother babying him and giving him the world while I sit back and watch. He turns 18 in a few months and if/when he gets in trouble again, I'm gonna laugh my ** off when he ends up in the system and can't join the Marines like he says he's going to do.

Best advice for anyone with an older step kid, IGNORE THEM, PRETEND THEY DON'T EXIST AND WAIT FOR THE DAY THEY TURN 18 SO YOU CAN PUT THEM ON THE STREET WITH NOTHING BUT A SMILE ON YOUR FACE!

Right on! He turns 18 tomorrow and I'm going to throw myself a party! LOL!

I am glad to hear I am not the only one. My crackhead almost 40 year old stepson is a piece of s****. His mom tries to call him all the time. He usually won’t answer or when he does, talks for a minute or two then promised to call back but never does. Oh but if he needs money to feed his drug habit he calls. Blames us for him losing custody of his daughter because we wouldn’t give him money for Laywer and court ordered drug test which he failed. Blames everyone else for his problems when 99% of the time it’s his fault. Doesn’t want to work. Told his mother I called him a piece of felt. Didn’t do it. Constantly lies. Mooching of friends for a place to say. Several have asked him to leave. I don’t hate him just want nothing to do with him I could go on for hours

I feel your pain. My stepson is the same way. Had a good job great girl friend and daughter. Lost everything to lies and drugs. What hurts the most is the way he treats his mom. She loves him with all her heart, but he treats her like Sh**. So sad.

I basically ignore him, walk out of room when he comes in go upstairs when he downstairs can’t stand him!
Problem is he’s 19 still lazy ** at home wish he moved out and a million miles away

Omg I’m so sorry that You lost all hope but look into the little ones eyes & find the hope that u lost it’s critical @ this point , dig deep & be strong for the little ones & kick that worthless piece of 💩out & if u can’t get him out give him a taste of his own medicine & keep the little kids away from him .good luck

I absolutely cannot stand my fiance's 7 yo son. This kid is the worst child I've ever had the displeasure of knowing. We have been together for almost 4 years. The little ** is constantly breaking my things and rules arould the house. He does what he wants, takes his punishment, and then does the same stupid sh** again. His poor excuse for a mother only gets him for 3 days to a week around holidays and his bday. I wish she had him full time! I love my fiance but that child is a huge pain in my **. I won't fully commit to marriage because I don't want to commit to that SOB. And to make matters worse, I'm pregnant so I don't want to split up. But if we do that demon seed will be the reason. I just wanna strangle and beat him every single day. I'm miserable in my own home, and it shouldn't be this way.

I get what you are going through. I have dealt with my nightmare stepson since he is 7 years old. He is 14 now and still around. Even though he only comes every other weekend, his presence makea me want to vomit as well 🤢. He is the most rude, lazy and disgusting human being. Me and my husband have a 1 year old and I don't really want him to set that example on my son. It is very hard since these devils are never going away. All he does since he comes is lay on the bed from Froday night to Sunday night watching his phone which I find extremely annoying. He won't come out of the room at all... only to eat and go to the bathroom. I don't even know what's the point of him coming here if he doesn't even talk. I just hate him so much!! I wish he could just dissapear forever

Omg I'm in the same boat found out my husband had a child who was 8 he came visited every year he is 14 now we have a 1yr he acts exactly how u explained I hate him so much i dont trust him he is constantly picking on our baby I dont want him around I can't stand looking at the little peice of ** not to mention he steals from us

Tell him to leave that sweet little baby alone. I'm going thru the same thing and I'm one smart ** comment from my stepson from flying bat ** crazy on him. And i dare my husband to open his mouth. He can go too and let that lazy no good lying snot rag help him pay his bills.

Same! My fiancé's son is almost 7 and he is a complete nightmare! He's obsessed with Christmas year round because he gets stuff from everyone, even when he's bad. He doesn't listen to anyone. Doesn't care if he hurts others feelings. Doesn't bathe or brush his teeth. Lies constantly... and the list goes on and on! We now have a 6 month old, so I don't want to leave, but I also can't picture myself this miserable for the next 12 years! I feel so helpless because my fiancé kisses his ex's ** because he's afraid she will take him away again... oh I wish she would!!

Poor excuse for a mom? Little ** kid? You guys are so ** evil.

That poor excuse of a mom should have kept her legs close ,your ** kids are ruining our relationships it's cringe

My girlfriends son is 15 years old and all I can say is that he manipulates her all the time. When she's around he acts way different than when he's alone with me. He has stolen from my family twice and he recently grabbed something from my desk and broke it. I told my girlfriend what he did and she went off on me for accusing him! She went as far as saying that I broke it and am trying to blame him! She turns a blind eye to everything he does because she thinks he's this innocent child. He is sabotaging my relationship, and his mom is blinded.

Get out, don’t waste any more of your life around that ** and his enabler, it will only get worse and cost you a lot of money

Trust that advise you will so regret it if you dont. It will rule you life and dictate your relationship because she will do everything she can to work against you and enable her son. Trust me I'm living it

Me too get out whilst you still can I promise your life will be ruined like mine is and I can’t get out after 10 years

My partners son is 20 and he’s a vile nasty master manipulator just like his mother! He hates me, he is nice enough if he wants something, a lift somewhere for example but every few weeks the sh*t hits the fan when he can’t get his own way and I am public enemy no.1. He threatens his Dad when he is told no, threatens to beat him up and take him outside to smash his face in, he’s just disgusting! He’s called me all the names under the sun and threatened me while I was holding the baby. He’s like a toddler throwing massive tantrums at the word no.
Worst thing is his nasty attitude is rubbing off on our own teenage son who is now also very negative and can be really nasty towards me, which is making me feel negative back at him too. I don’t want nasty feelings towards my own child.
My partners sons girlfriend is just as bad too and happily stirs things up at every opportunity.
I suppose I can only be grateful he doesn’t live with us! I absolutely despise the nasty c***! I’m so glad I am not alone!

I have an 18 year old stepson who I despise! He does work full time and I've said go his mother it's time for him to pay rent or help out around the house and he does neither.he has 15000 saved up and says he's broke all the time lazy ** can't even lift a ** around the house it makes me sick and I fight with his mother constantly about him but of course she always takes his side and I'm ready to leave it all because of him

I don't hate much but I hate him so ** much

Don't feel lonely, I have the same situation at my home.

Same here.

Yep sounds like my situation ! My wife thinks the sun shines from stepsons ** and he’s just brilliant when I and lots of others ( family) now he’s a useless sponging **.
On paper he’s done this done that but in reality he’s a ** up ** who the biggest mummy’s boy you’ll ever come across. He contributes zero both physically and financially around the house while daft mum picks up and tidys up after him literally .
I don’t speak or acknowlage or make any eye contact to him around the house as I ** hate him.
I mumble words like ** head , ** , **, **, bitty ( little Britain) fucktard to my self ect every time I walk past him.
It’s a shame really as his mum and dad have made this human into what it is today which is a disturbed useless **.

Omg I am so glad I am not alone...I hate my SS. He lies about everything...and when he gets busted he tries to manipulate the situation! He is 14 and treats me like garbage! We paid his mom so we could get full custody of him and I regret it so much! He treates me and my son so bad! Wish I could send him back to his mom! Everyday it is something with him...

I am from South Africa. Living with my partner for 10 years. I do not have kids of my own. Her son is 16 and a master manipulator. He acts all sweet and innocent in front of his mom and other people, but when we are alone or his mom is not observant enough, he back chats me all the time. He does his chores most of the time, but his mom has to pay him to do it. His father does not contribute at all financially and he is his son's hero, even after physically abusing his mom for years before she divorced him. I contribute two thirds of my salary to the household each month. But because I earn less than my partner I have to supliment that by doing most of the chores like cooking and washing as well. The kid has a knack to never finish anything he starts. For example washing the dishes he does not wash properly and puts dirty dishes back in cupboard.... when I reprimand him for it his mom goes off at me. It has now got so bad she refuses me intimacy if I dont treat him like royalty ALL the time. The other day he back chatted me again and I went at him and almost hit him... and he pushed me. I know I was wrong, but in that moment I realised he is just like his father and going to hit women.... because I am a woman. I am not allowed to say anything to him but I must pay half of everything in the household? He runs to his mother and tells her lies about me that she always believes. I am lying in bed now. Alone. Because he has hijacked the whole day by waiting till Sunday to do a school project. And mum must help him with it. I am lying here and reading everyone elses stories and not feeling so alone anymore...

I married a man that raises 8 yrs old son and I can't stand this rude child. He makes me sick Because my husband spoils him waaaaaaaayyyy to much & he disrespect my husband at home & in the public. I want a divorce because of his child. I deserve so much better. Mrs. Nuknown

Anyone have middle-aged stepsons that act friendly in front of their Dad but are rude and dismissive when he's not around? My stepson lives on the same cul-de-sac and is an angry little man. His wife is Creepy too and his Dad supplemented their income until he had a stroke 3 years ago. Just need to vent.

Wow! It's a relief to read that I am not the only one struggling with stepkids..out of 4 the worst one is the 17 year old that disrespects me and tells me he wants to slice my throat at night, calls me an ** and disrespects me when he feels like it... yes when he feels like it. He refuses to do chores or follow rules in the house becuase im not his mother. When I talk to my husband, all he does is have a convo with him. He doesn't believe punishment will do anything because this kid has a IDGAF attitude . I've asked my husband to take him to a specialist and have him checked out. He has been in and out of mental hospitals, juvenile detention centers, etc.. I have a 1 year old with my husband. The only best thing that come out of the SS is that he is a good brother to my baby. The SS is ruining my marriage with my husband . I love my husband but I do not love his kids. I don't want to ruin my marriage because I can't stand his son. He lives with us Full time and does nothing around the house. I use to wish for him to turn 18 and get out of my house.. but that doesn't seem like it's going to happen. He isn't mentally capable of taking care of himself. I'm just mentally drained with all this. Mind this, my SS is 10 years younger than me.

Wow. I am so glad I am not alone. Last week my 12 yr old stepson kicked our 2 yr old daughter who is nothing but loving towards him. 3 yrs ago he even shot my 12 yr old with a toy gun giving her a black eye. My husband is passive and refuses to discipline my stepson. I've just starting feeling this resentment this summer. My husband always defends his sons action and favors him over our toddler. People always expect us to keep being nice no matter what. Its ruining my relationship with my partner.

Mine is just a videogame playing ** pig who deserves everything he gets. As life goes on i won't be there for him no matter what. Once he's grown all betts are off. Little ** off

My girlfriend of 6yrs has a...
What I call the poster child for redhead ** stepchild.
He's a 14yr ** thru & thru.
I hate the little **.
He doesn't have any choirs & has yelling tantrums while playing video games.
He plays sick & missing at least 1 day a week from school
He has his mom wrapped around her **.
I get physically ill when it's his week to stay with us.
Thank God the demon seed stays with his dad every other week.
Just venting & seeing who else has my problem

Kick him out

** make ur husband beat your kid. If someone sets a building on fire and the police just tell him not to do it again wtf do u think is gonna happen. Jesus Christ, some of u ppl should just not have any kids