I'm 30 years old and just found out

I'm 30 years old and just found out yesterday that my dad fathered a child while he was married to my mom. The baby apparently died when she was 3 months old. My mom found out about it and my fathers Christmas party since it was a co worker of his. This was when my oldest sister was only 3 yrs old.. she's now 40. Apparently he cheated on my mother for about 90% of their 16 yr marriage. Even slept w/ the maid of honor the night before my moms wedding!!!! Basically my father was a total b******! I knew he was no angel.. but I didnt know it was this bad. I'm too old to hold things against him that happened well over 30 yrs ago and i know he regrets his role is our lives.. or lack therof. I just found it rather shocking when i found all that info out. Just wanted to get it out there someway. thanks!

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  • pops got game!!!

  • You seem to being great considering the situation

  • Yeah that really sucks. and the 3rd poster is an idiot. Of course shes gonna hold it against him!!

  • that is awful

  • Do not hold what your father did to your mother against him. Yes, that was f***** up what he did, but it doesn't change the fact that he is your dad and loves you.

  • Yeah sorry to hear that dude. Stay strong man


  • God, that sucks. I'm sorry.

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