So, my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years. And everything's pretty much wonderful, except for one issue.

Before I dated him, I made out with (and then he slept over) this other guy one time, who after that, stopped talking to me. After that, I started hanging out with my current boyfriend, and then after a few weeks, we started dating.

Now, my current boyfriend, cannot seem to get over what happened with me and the other guy. He told me that every time he sleeps next to me, all he can think about is that other guy and me making out and him sleeping in my bed, and I'm not sure what to do. I've apologized multiple times, and told him how much I regret that night, and that I should've been with him from the start, but the past is the past. I regret it, and wish I could take it back, but I can't. I just need him to get over this. I can't deal with him being upset about it every time he goes to sleep in my bed. I suggested that we talk to a therapist together. I'm willing to do what it takes to help him get over this. He said he wouldn't break up with me if he can't get over it, but logically, I would think that that would be the best thing for him. I want him to be 100% happy in the relationship.

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  • He's got issues. You should leave him.

  • And I forgot to add, what kind of doormat are you that you grovel to your boyfriend about that other guy ? You're right, you BOTH need therapy, apparently.

  • Your boyfriend sounds ridiculous. He's been your boyfriend for TWO YEARS and he can't get over someone you slept with BEFORE you met him ? What an insecure douchebag ! Tell him to get some THERAPY and get over himself. He has no right to terrorize you about your past and make you feel guilty about it.

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