Don't Get Too Serious

I started talking to this guy. We have really hit it off. He has made it clear that he isn't looking for anything "serious". I told him that was great for me, I could take or leave a serious relationship. So we've entered into this sort of casual non-relationship. Two dates this week and we talk daily. I am keeping it very casual... Just based on some things he's said and done this week alone, I think he's actually starting to develop stronger feelings for me. Like I said, I could take or leave a serious relationship. I'd be fine with just going out occasionally and having some good conversations. BUT, I'm worried that he's going to scare himself by becoming too interested in me and break it off all together.

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  • Sit down with him and ask him if he's starting to develop strong feelings towards you. If he admits it ask him how he feels about that. (If he doesn't admit it ask him what he would do if he was.) If he indicates he would sooner break it off than risk falling for you advise him to see other people. By dividing his attention between you and someone else he's less likely to fall in love and it gives you implicit permission to see other people as well.

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