I'm married. we're seperated. I slept

I'm married. we're seperated. I slept with two guys (on different night) and now im pregnant. I don't know who the father is, but I know it's not my husband's cuz I havn't seen him in 2 yrs. I told the first guy that I'm not sure if it's his baby, but I can't bring myself to tell the second guy that it might not be his. He's going to all the dr appts with me, and it makes me sick everytime I think about it. I don't want to hurt him, but I don't know what to do.

This is the first time in my life I have ever done anything like this, and why did I have to get pregnant? We used protection, but it broke. The baby is due August 14th (2007)

I'm not going to tell the second guy unless he asks for a paternity test.

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  • f*** you all.don't judge me.

  • MAURY POVICH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Wow...

  • Good for you, you stupid c***!
    I hope the baby ends up with down syndrome.

  • by the way, i did go back to the husband, before the baby was born. i had a girl on august 1st. she was olny 6 punds at birth. my husband wans me to give her up for adopshion, but i alrady love her. and she looks like my husband, so pepole will not really be able to tell

  • i already told him. he hates my guts, and so do his parents, and i don't blame them.

  • What's done is done. Now you have to start making the right decisions from here on out. But the reason you got pregnant was because you probably knew better. It's weird how that happens. You see other people do it and get away with it. They come and tell you countless stories of the great adventures they had with this person and that person and they don't catch anything or get pregnant or anything. And as soon as you try it, bam STD or baby on the way. But anyway now you have to tell the second guy that it's not his so he can make a real decision on whether to be in this kids life or not. But it's going to be much worse (for YOU!!!!) if he gets invested in this kid and finds out later own it's not his. Then they are both going to be mad at you. The kid for not telling him who his real dad is and the second guy for tricking him all this time. The one fact is sooner or later they are going to find out. And it's better they find out from you now than on their own later.


  • reply from the confessor----No kids in the first marriage... We did a paternity test with the first guy, and it's his.... he's a coke head, and the only reason I slept with him is because I was too drunk to say no. What a great dad he will be. The first guy turned out to be an ass also. Maybe I should go back to the husband.

  • There are many kids out there who think they know who there daddy is. You are in a bit of a fix with no perfect option. You don't know me and I don't know you. My advice is to find someone you trust, someone who knows you, and come up with a game plan.

  • Maury Povich or Jerry Springer want you on their show NOW! Did you have any kids with the first marriage?

  • I think you should let both know whats up. Better now then 5 years from now when things might get dirty.

  • You came in heat, you got bred, deal with it.

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