I don't want to lose her
I have been dating this girl for almost three years. I was up late last night and overheard some noise coming from her bedroom. I know she goes on this multi role player game. There is guy let's call him frank. He lives multiply states away I though he was no threat but last night I heard something that I have known for sometime but didn't want to believe it. She was having cyber s** and I could hear her moaning. I got scared that maybe I'm not enough for her that she wants this guy over me. I wanted to confront her but chickened out and so I laid there trying to catch her in the act maybe ask her if I could join in but I was afraid she would deny the whole thing. Would it be considered cheating and that I should confront her about cheating and end it, should I ask her if I could joinmaybe add some spice in the bedroom, or try harder to keep her?