I have been texting this guy that I work with for a couple of months, I really like him, but I'm 40 and he's 26. I do no look my age at all it seems that when I hit my 40 my body and looks finally came in, everyone says I'm pretty hot including this guy. Also I have been married for 7 years and have a 5 year old, I love my husband, he works way too much, I know it's very dumb specially since he is a great man and dad. Last week my guilt got to me and decided to tell the guy from work that friends will be better, we have only been together twice, no s**, but the reaction that I got from him was not what I expected and got dissapointed, after I left him, like a teenager I texted him if he was still ok w me and if he still liked me, he texted back telling me that he liked me as a friend. I also wanted to find out if it was still ok to see each other outside work, he texted back with "we will see what happens" which to me was over. So now I see him at work and he is cold and won't talk to me, i miss him since we really did connected, I lost my appetite for a couple of days and felt sick as well, all I do is think of him, I want him back, but I won't go after him.