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Went on ** date
I posted that my wife wanted an open marriage, or to start swinging. Knowing she is extremely impulsive, I was able to talk her out of an open marriage. She agreed it wasn't practical, being seen around the city with different men may not be helpful to her career either.
However, she said swinging with another couple still might be fun if we were discrete enough. She had already set up a date on Friday night with another couple, but she told me we wouldn't have any ** on this first date. So I agreed to go. It would give me time to talk her out of the swinging, or I could hope she decided she wouldn't like it also.
She wore a mini dress and looked like a super model. We drove into the city to meet at a bar. She had shown me pictures of the couple, but the photos didn't do the couple justice, she was a very attractive blonde, with big full **, and pretty face, and smile. He was about 6'3" black man, built like a football player. His name was Ben, and hers was Jody.
Instead of staying at the bar, we decided to go a dance club that played all kinds of different music. My wife walked into the club with Ben on her arm, and I likewise with Jody. We got a booth, Karen and Ben go to the dance floor immediately, while I stayed and talked to Jody. I asked her all kinds of questions about her swinging, she said they didn't swing with that many couples, 1, or 2, and one of the couples had dropped out, so they were looking for a new couple to swing with.
The night was going uneventful, until I was on the dance floor with Jody, and saw my wife making out with Ben at the booth. Not much I could do right then, it would of been a huge scene, so I turned my attention to Jody, believe me I was shocked my wife was making out with another man. A slow dance started and Jody wrapped her arms around me, gave me a little kiss on my cheek, and whispers in my ear, " I would really like you to ** me!" **, this is going faster than I wanted, I told her maybe on the next date. Jody and I go back to the booth, Ben and Karen are gone. The place was crowded so I couldn't tell if they were dancing or where they were at. After about fifteen minutes the two come back to the booth, and we say our good byes.
On the car ride home, I told my wife I saw her kissing Ben, and I thought it wasn't right, she quickly turned it back on me and said she saw me kissing Jody. Jody kissed me on the cheek. Karen asked what I thought of Ben, and Jody. She bluntly asked if I would of ** Jody, I told her it was going too fast, and we need to go slow with the swinging. She said also bluntly said she would have no problem ** Ben.
She set up another date with them in a couple of weeks, hopefully in the meantime, I can persuade her to give up the swinging. I did notice something that also disturbed me, when Karen got undressed for bed she wasn't wearing any **, when we left to meet them she was.
I know people will be judging me about what happened, or tell me my wife does not love me, she does, and I love her. Like I wrote before, my wife gets impulsive, and I have had to talk her out of doing crazy things before, like buying expensive cars, and jewelry. I should have no problem doing it again.
Man up or youre gonna be cucked before you know it..you probably already are. Listen this ends badly if you dont step up and tell her..NO. If it ends in divorce then believe me man it will be the best thing for you..she is a bad investment that will only take you down.. like some have said..JUST BE A MAN, call her bluff and show her who you are..at the moment she see's you aas a wimp.
Go along, let her ** the black guy, enjoy his wife. Get the upper hand in the relationship. You push her, Not the other way around. You make the araingemnts and find the couples. You seem distraught and afraid your going lose her. The only way you don't lose her is to trick her out and push her beyond her limits. . The reason she wants to ** other men is because she wants a man to take charge of her sexually. You have to be that man. The genie is out of the bottle. She has a case of hot **. Ride it out. You can either have a blast with it or let it destroy you because your a big **.
Invite your friends over to sleep with you, you will enjoy it.
I'm so sorry, man. You shouldn't have to put up with this, it isn't what you agreed to when you married I assume, so for her to change the rules is unfair to you since it wasn't what you signed up for. I guess your choices are to decide if you can live with it or leave her if you can't, which ** and I'm sorry. But like another poster said, if you decide you can't deal with it and tell her to stop she will probably just go behind your back. She doesn't sound like much of a catch to me, honestly, if she has so little regard for your feelings that she would basically try to force you into accepting this. I wish you all the best, I hope it all works out. Oh and ignore the ** talkers. As I'm sure you know, it's unhelpful and unnecessary.
What a ** and what a moron.
Either your posts are completely fabricated **, or you need to wake up and smell the ** juices i.e. the missing ** and the unexplained 15 minutes gone. She already ** Ben. Duh !!! You ain't talking her out of NOTHING, Jack.
U r all ready history. U just don't know it jet.