I keep wanting to have ** with my best

So in essence, you have a crush (or more) on him. Instead of wrecking your best friend relationship try to organize more stuff together. Suggest going to concerts. Or some sports like roller blading, or biking, or the movies, or a casino. Just engineer it.Also, try to open up discussion regarding emotions maybe. Best of luck!
Sounds like you are an attention **! Get the ** over it **!

Sounds like you are an attention **! Get the ** over it **!

i agree with the above poster^^^^^

if he's your best friend he will not expect this. it will probably ruin your relationship and it is not worth it. if he's pressuring you into it, he's not really your friend after all, and if you feel that you must do this to keep him as a friend, then you have self-esteem issues you need to address.

from your last post, it sounds like you DO have a crush on this guy & just aren't willing to admit it to yourself. i say this because you sound jealous about him spending time with other girls. but that is just my take on it.

take care,
wannabe psychologist

I don't have a crush on him. I'm not attracted to him at all, and I just see him as a friend, but I would be willing to have ** with him if I knew it would make him pay more attention to me. He never seems to have the time for me but he apparently has the time to go out and try to pick up girls.

So in essence, you have a crush (or more) on him. Instead of wrecking your best friend relationship try to organize more stuff together. Suggest going to concerts. Or some sports like roller blading, or biking, or the movies, or a casino. Just engineer it. Also, try to open up discussion regarding emotions maybe.

Best of luck!

I doubt having ** with him will achieve this goal.

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