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My boyfriend will only sleep with me once a month even though I'd prefer once a day on average. I love him with all my heart but I can't live like this anymore - I NEED ** - so I've decided to have an affair with my ex boyfriend who has the smallest ** of any guy I'd ever slept with. This way I don't risk falling for him or getting attached (I barely was when we were dating) and he'll never satisfy me as much as my boyfriend can, and the once a month my bf and I DO have ** it won't raise any suspicions because I won't be stretched out. In a way I'm punishing myself because I get the ** I crave and am so starved for but just the bare minimum and no more. I'm hoping the ** pheromones will cause my boyfriend's libido to rise. This guy doesn't even have me on Facebook so it feels 'safe.' I have no intention of getting caught.
Do not marry someone who has a different ** drive. You will suffer. You may get caught.
Read about cuckold & see if your BF is into this. Look at his history to see if he has looked it up. Talk to him about it & both read about it together. This is a very common fantasy for men. If he likes it, you may be able to use it to make you both happy.
I say go for it! I regret being faithful to my former boyfriends. They didn’t give the respect and fidelity I deserved, so if I couldn’t go back in time and change that I was with them; I would have rather cheated instead.
A lot of men cheat, but we as women are still brainwashed into being faithful. Why?! Why should we be limited, when they don’t usually do the same?
Find someone new, and don’t worry about size being small. The relationship with him may be better since you will be happier anyway. You may just be his “beard” and he would rather not know anyway. My ex withheld as punishment for stupid things and he had low T. He is the one who pushed for a relationship when I just got out of one and still wanted to be the way he was, though he acted caring at first. Anyway, as a man told me “You do you! Don’t worry about him.” I wished I would have listened. Be prepared for consequences or joy of either action, regret for cheating or regret for being faithful.
You are going to die one day, make it worth it.
1 time a month is way to less ...
its just to low, not normal.
I am a guy, so i can say, if a guy just make ** once a month. he is either somehow ill OOOOOORR he has other options which he is useing regularly.
U said he not have you on FB ? so maybe he is hiding you ( or himself).
Means its not clear who started cheating first.
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And anyway ** is a good thing. We need it even for health.
Stoping stress, makes brain work better. Calmness, relaxation, weightloose, edurance, hearthealth,... the list goes on.
As long we use condoms. (or make test about trasmited illness) it is all safe 100%
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So no need to fear **, or ** with diffrent Partners.
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its a normal thing, its a good thing.
cause health and well being also depending on good **.
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I would say :
Check your bf health (hormones-Levels, heart edurance and so on...)
Also check if he has other girls. if he dont have you on FB it can be cause he has other girls there.
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Also make a clear statemnet ,that you like **, and you need itto be often for you to have a good relationship.
make he is just not aware?
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And byside that ...till its all cleared out... you still can totaly have another guy. Doesnt even have to be small d.i.c.ked .
you can have just kind of same size or just below.
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I think if he gives pleasure to a girl just once a month, he totaly deserves it to be replaced by other guy.
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I mean AFTER ALL A MAN AND WOMAN COME TOGETHER FOR SEXUAL REASONS. ALL OTHER THINGS CAN BE DONE WITH SAME GENDERS.
just for ** we need a BF or GF.
And if a partner dont comes after his "duty" he failed basicaly. and deserved to be treaten like that.
DONE !!!
Girl if you feel the urge to cheat masturbation is the way to go, and if you want something to be inside you, you go plenty of things around the house that in sure would fit inside you, so use them and stop cheating on your boyfriend who is being faithful to you.
ok pay attention you should learn that respecting your bf's wishes to respect your body is more imoprtant than your libido also if your libido is higher than your man's than either try to make the once a month thing last you a month or drop him and get a guy with a more suitable libido (and size if that is really so important) anyway i have people who aren't cheating who need my help