I don't know what to do...
My current boyfriend and I were friends for nearly two years before we got together and I am thrilled to be his girlfriend. But...there's something going on that I think is kinda' off. I can't ask my mother or sisters and I'd rather die than bring this up with any of my male relatives.
I am a 16 year old girl. I have been home-schooled my whole life and am not the best in social situations. I've only dated two people...so I have no clear idea of what a relationship requires 'intimately'. My guy (let's say his name is Max) was always pretty perverted with his sense of humor and what not, but now he's just over the top. I can't sit next to him without him trying to cop a feel and I can't walk by without him smacking my ass. He is especially aggressive when his friend Josh is around...which is the real problem here.
Max and I have been steadily dating for nearly a year now and we've been having s** for most of it. I try very hard to be a good girlfriend and do all of the things he asks me to do. I give him b******* at least once a week and I've even let him try a***, though it hurt like a b**** and I cried. I think that I am open and supportive enough in our s** lives, but he's still not satisfied. When I asked him what I could do to resolve this, he says he wants to involve his friend Josh!!! He wants Josh to watch he and I together. Then he wants to watch me doing things with his friend!
What the F*** man?!?!?
He's usually very jealous, even going so far as to start a fight with my study-buddy (Who happens to be gay. I told him that and he still punched the poor guy for supposedly wanting to f*** me.) I just don't understand! I love my Max very much and I really want to be with him...should I just....do it? I let him do whatever else. I don't even know what Josh thinks about any of this. Being with someone else, even with my man watching (weird thing to think about), seems unfaithful to me and I pride myself on loyalty.
What should I do?!?!
-- Confused Individual