I am so confused about my relationship. I have had a boyfriend for 3 years, and we got engaged 6 months ago but I don't know if I'm still in love him or I'm just settling because I'm afraid no one else will take me and I want a baby in the next couple years. I don't like to make-out any more, I turn away if he tries to give me more than a quick kiss. I don't do it on purpose, I don't think about it I just do and I never feel in the mood to have s** with him but he always wants it. We also live together so I have no idea what to do, or how to tell him I'm not happy, so I started cutting again, to deal with my emotions, and he hasn't noticed even though he knew I cut when we first started seeing each other. I've also never dated anyone else, never-mind slept with them. But there's this guy at work, I thought it was just a silly little crush, that I just thought he was cute and a good guy but I find myself looking at him more and more and I've had s** dreams about him the last 3 nights.

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  • Dump him. You settled, and now you're starting to get over him. If you've already checked out mentally, you won't check back in.

    I found myself in a similar situation, and I dumped him. It was only after that when I realized how s***** he was. You will too. You deserve better, and you won't realize this until you find out what you've given up for him.

    I wasted more than five years with a loser. Don't be stubborn like me; there's never shame in giving up on a lost cause.

  • how the f*** do you know if he's a s***** guy like your boyfriend. maybe you're s*** too! any f*****' way, this b**** still is right, dump him if you don't love him coz you've got to be fair to him. tell him how you feel, and don't settle coz you think no one else is out there you. i'd rather be alone than be miserable for the rest of my life. re the baby, if you really wanted it, then be prepared to be a single mom if you ever end up alone. whatever makes you happy girl. oh and lastly, that guy at work, give it ago. you know what they say, you'll never know unless you try. life's short girl.

  • Its not fair to your fiance if you you dont love him. Tell him and you both can move on.


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