What do i do?
I fell pregnant to a guy I've known for YEARS but we were never officially together. When i told him he absolutely freaked out (i totally understand, i did too) i gave him a choice of whether he wanted to be involved or not and he said yes. Then after a few weeks he changed his mind and was really nasty to me.
I found out later from a mutual friend that he was apparently taking drugs cause he couldn't cope with the news. I tried talking to him but he didn't want to know.
I decided id do things on my own when suddenly 4 months later he texts me apologising profusely and saying he's been to rehab. He's been making a wonderful effort and seems so much more like his old self but he is ALWAYS ask me for money. He always has some excuse for needing it and it worries me because he has a well paying full time job. I've started to refuse lending it because he never pays me back even though he said he would. Is this a sign he's still on drugs? I don't know how to tell. He seems normal every other way. I don't want the baby around that kind of thing.
Anyone have advice on druggies? Thaenks for reading.