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I really hate my friend
I really don't like one of my friends. She lives really close to me, so she comes over a lot. Sometimes, when she rings my doorbell, I pretend that I'm not home. She's super annoying. All I want is for her to stop bothering me. But I feel super guilty too.
This is understandable. We all have that one friend that just tries our patience a little too much, and its probably not helped by the fact you see them so often. Sometimes, even friends can be incompatable on many levels... you sitll love the person (indicated by your guilt) but there are just certain things that bug you, it happens.
You need to find an innocuous way to filter them somehow... doesnt necessarily have to be not seeing her all the time, you could jsut start doing things where you have to talk less often (eg going to see a movie or eating... providing shes not one of those types that talks all the way through a film or with her mouth full... annoying)
Other than that, you may need to accept that its time to move on... sometimes, friends come and go too : / people change as they grow up, its just how it is.
But, if at all possible, the best course would be to first try anything to get past the annoyances.
*MistaJ