My bestfriend

I am in love with my best friend. She is the most incredible person on the planet. And I had a chance to be with her, and it was good. But then I messed it up. We are still best friends and I have to try and convince her daily that I am not in love with her in that way. It is the hardest thing in the world to do. Especially when she brings guys around and wants me to like them. She needs me to like them for it to go anywhere, and I can never feel like I honestly dislike them without it being my own jealousy.

I hate this. I am a grown adult who feels like a stupid high schooler.

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  • Subconsciously you're fighting for her. Decide whether that's a good thing or not.

  • Good lord, do you really have to talk to him like that? Yeesh...
    Though yes, the main point has merit. Talk to her, and if nothing can come of it, you need to move on. However, there is nothing stopping you remaining friends... we're a species that has evolved beyond the "million year male-female" relationship that is entirely biology driven, we are capable of platonic relationships if we choose to be... unless you are a complete animal.
    Main point, you need to talk to her, and figure out if there's ever going to be a chance of more again... and if not, you then have to make a choice of whether youd rather at least have her as a friend and move on, or not have her at all... but you'll still have to move on anyway then.

  • listen, dumbass, tell her you love her...if she rejects you, then tell her the relationship is can't f*** with 1 million years of the male-female relationship by claiming you only want to be friends...f***, or move on!

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