My boyfriend nearly ended our long-term

My boyfriend nearly ended our long-term relationship, but realized in time what a terrible mistake it would be and how much he would miss me and asked me to stay. We both were crying as we held each other that night.

I love him so much, but there is a part of me that is so, so angry at him for what happened that night, and I feel like I want revenge for the pain he caused me and the tears he caused me to shed. I don't know if I will ever feel as secure in our relationship as I did before this happened. How do I get over this feeling of wanting to make him pay for what he did, even if it's quietly, without him knowing about it?

Report this


  • newest
  • oldest
  • most replies
  • most popular
  • Uhm. If you want revenge, you don't really love him. Tell yourself that :)

  • Try being honest with him. Tell him whatever happened has caused you to doubt the validity of your feeling in the relationship. Tell him you still love him and that hasn't changed, but you'll need time to heal from the pain of what happened. If he loves you, he'll understand.

  • Well if you love him then don't try and get revenge. Yeah he hurt you that night but he realized his mistake in time to do something about it. Plus if you love him that much then let that night go and concentrate on building the trust back up to, and beyond the level it was before this drama went down. Believe me any type of revenge you try to get will only cause you more pain in the long run and may confirm what doubts he had when he was trying to leave you the first time.


  • did u have s** with him..? if u like him marry him.. or else forget what has happened and live a new life..

Account Login
Is this post inapropriate?
Is this comment inapropriate?
Delete this post?