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I resent my boyfriend
My boyfriend is really sweet and loves me a lot, but i resent him because i work out constantly and eat well so i can look and feel good. he's constantly telling me how hot he thinks i am, but he doesn't work out and he's like 30 pounds overweight. he's always making excuses about why he can't work out and he gets mad at me when i bring it up. why is it ok for him to sit around and be fat while i make such an effort to stay in shape?
he's always asking me whether i think other guys are hotter than him. i don't know what to say because i think he's cute and i'm attracted to him, but i think his fat stomach isn't attractive at all and i would be a lot more attracted to him if he were actually in shape. he keeps saying he'll join a gym and lose weight, but i don't think he's ever going to actually do it.
Deal with who he is and quit trying to change him for your own vanity!
Tell him what you just said about his belly. Just be honest with him.