I am very embarrased and depressed.

Hi, I am a 27 year old male and never had a girlfriend in my life, and yes, I never touch a girl in my life, well I am skinny and I think I am kind of ugly when I look at myself in the mirror, I also dropped out of an highschool because I am not interested in reading and I always fail the exam, all the results are very bad and embarrasing.
At this time, when I look at other people at my age, they have a girlfriend and some are married, and have a job that pays pretty well, where I am just a salesman that have low salary and I can't afford anything in my life, good car and house etc.
For time being, I really don't want to live like this, I am tired of people asking me "are you still single?", and I don't have a friend. My boss never treat me right, and I am getting older and I know things will get worsen, when I compare myself with other people I can see they are a lot smarter, and didn't need to work that hard and they kind of enjoyed their life, atleast most people that around me are like that.
I am not sure whether this is a right place to write all this.

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  • I'm 21 and I never had a girlfriend, either. I never done anything with anyone. I would say i am ugly too, I think. Let it go, time will tell. If anything goes well, you will get an answer but don't be depressed, friend. This is not a big deal, you will get used to it. Give it time.

  • Your a good guy going through some ackward years. S*** works out in the end. As you get older you end up finding women in the same boat and maybe not so choosy. Keep your head up and be confident man. Also invest time in hobbies and s*** that have the potential but not goal of meeting women. I picked up hiking recently and you wouldnt believe how many chicks on the trail have tried to get with me. Yeah they are organic and hairy chicks but its all good man.

  • Most people who succeed have to work hard, no matter how it looks to you on the outside. Try and do something to cheer up. I was 24 before I went on a date, she then broke my heart and I saw her with a much better looking guy. That is life. I almost got married and had another beautiful girlfriend for many years but then she broke my heart too and I am single and alone, and feel a lot like you. There are lots of things you can do for free, bike rides etc. Maybe do some volunteer work, a great way to help and meet other people and maybe some girl will see they good inside you. Often you don't find love until you stop looking or it finds you. I like the end of the movie castaway. watch it.

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