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My ** is a hollow cavity - it's an empty space and there are no nerve endings up there. So why and how can you have reached the age you're at, and not realise? We've been having ** for six years and you never touch my ** (only briefly and half-heartedly). You don't pick up on my hints when I move your hand there. Are you stupid? The equivalent things is this: we've been having ** three times a week for years, but I've hardly ever touched your ** in that time. Our "** life" has never given me sensations that are sexually pleasurable. I can feel that your ** is there, but of all the hundreds of hours, I've never felt pleasure. I truly want to give up and not bother having ** with you any more!
Let this unfortunate lady’s post be a warning to all young women reading this.
Being sexually fulfilled is absolutely fundamental within a long term relationship.
It is vital that, at the very start of any sexual relationship, we must discuss with any male partner exactly what stimulation our body requires in order to be satisfied sexually. Most men honestly don’t have a clue about the ** & how to stimulate it correctly in order for you to achieve **. Books don’t cut it, because every woman is different, both in physiology & our mental approach to intimacy.
When the relationship gets to “third base”, where we are expected to perform hand jobs and/or blow jobs, it’s important that the male understands that he is expected to pleasure you equally, & you must, if necessary, give him a guided tour of your body & explain frankly & fully what you need him to do to give you the pleasure you deserve.
Any man not prepared to regard your pleasure as important as his does not deserve your company; & is definitely not worth marrying!
Sorry typo
Men don't get hints.
Men do get hints.
We don't do subtle.
We don't read minds.
Before you give up, communicate. Really communicate. Don't use "you", use "we". It may not help you at all. He may be an a-hole. I have no idea. You have let this go on for years without talking to him? You can sleep with him for years but your too embarrassed to show him how you need to be touched to **?