Okay, so there's a girl that I'm in
Okay, so there's a girl that I'm in love with. However she has a boyfriend. She says she loves me back, she just doesn't want to be with me because she doesn't want to make her boyfriend sad (her boyfriends a high school drop-out that does drugs, lives in his parents basement, and neglects her, when I first began talking to her, she was very depressed with everything about him) So we became friends and sorta eventually discovered that we had feelings for one another. So we sorta began having a bit of a secret relationship, though not really secret because her boyfriend knew about me. She's said herself she'd rather be with me, she's just afraid of what her boyfriend would do to her or me. So today I told her that I wouldn't make any more advances and we'd just be friends until she was all happy with things. Whether that meant dumping her boyfriend or staying with him. i just want her to be happy...did I do the right thing?