Not a virgin

I've always preached to try ur hardest to remain a virgin until marriage. Then slowly my vies started changing. Throughout the process of deciding whether it is right or wrong i got into discussion with my best friend Mary and my sister amber. We all decided that when we do lose our virginities we would tell each other. Well I did it. I had s** with my male best friend. Him Mary and I are the three musketeers. Him and I became "f*** buddies" with no strings attached but nothing said to anyone. It does not feel wrong but basically fun. But I do feel as though I am lying to my sister and bestfriend. One time my sister even asked me if I was a virgin an I lied and said yes. It is not their business but something makes me feel as though I'm hiding too much from them. I always bite my tongue though. Is it right that in hiding this from them? Should I open up to them? Or will it just all be too awkward? These thoughts go through my head everyday but I still have trouble saying it.

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  • Are they the kind of people who keep your confidence/secrets ?
    If not...don't.
    When they ask if you are a virgin, tell them what they can bear to hear, and do not betray yourself.

    If you begin to feel guilt, look into their eyes and notice how wonderful they are in your life, and how sweet it is to keep it that way.

    They are a blessing, not your confessor.

  • You don't have to open up unless you get pregnant. It's nobodies buisness but your own if you've had s** or not.

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