My best-friend is the sweetest guy you could ever meet. He can be a d*** sometimes but he changes when he knows he has taken it too far. He stands about 5'5" and has hazel eyes with brown hair. He isn't skinny nor fat. Kind of in the middle. Anyways I think I like him. It might just be a stupid little crush but for some reason I can't help but feel like he likes me too. He asked me to be his date to the Spring Fling dance coming up at our school. On Valentine's day he got me a chocolate bar and a teddy bear that says "I'm wild about you." I figured it was a friendly gesture. Don't get me wrong he is really cute but I don't want to ruin our friendship. I tell him everything and he is really understanding when it comes to my problems and he gives the best advice. He's seen me in a bikini before and it doesn't bother me. He always calls me pet names like sweetheart, babe, baby, honey buns, etc. I don't know if I like him or the way he treats me.

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  • It does sound like he likes you. And the Spring Fling sounds like it's his attempt to ask you out. Have you asked him is this ...friends going together or a real date? Curious if you two have ever kissed? Some of his actions makes it seem like he's in a relationship already. And I think it's strange when guys call girls "Babe" or "Baby" when they're not dating them. But maybe that's me. Maybe he thinks that he is in a relationship with you already lol. But, dating your best friend, doesn't mean that you two will no longer be friends. Yes, if you do it can change the relationship, but it doesn't have to end badly. You two can still work it out. A friendship should be the foundation to any good relationship. It's how you handle things. I had a similar thing happen to me. We were in college, not high school. He told me how he felt, and we tried dating but it didn't work because I just wasn't attracted to him in the same way. But when he went for one of my friends, I was..jealous. And it was so feel that way. It worked out and we are still best friends to this day. Went to his wedding recently. You hit the nail on the head about how you feel..Do you like him or Do you like the way he treats you. You have to figure that out, and just be honest with your feelings.

  • I haven't asked him because I don't want it to seem like I want him to say we are going as more then friends. I have kissed him on the heeck because of the Valentine's day stuff he bought me. Thats what I'm scared of. I want to be in a relationship with him because Infigured that I like him but I want everything to be the same between us. I want to try and blow it off but I figure if i wait too long then he will move on. Thanks for the advice (:

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