I Don't Understand...

I'm not ugly, I get great grades, I'm one of his best friends and we've went through so much together. The school year is almost over and I'm scared to tell him my feelings. I'm obviously friendzoned which I guess is better than nothing. At least I'm still a part of his life. The part I don't understand is Kiara. The super skinny, dumb, beach blonde bimbo he chose over me. Why? Girls have tried to tell him she cheats on him, but he always gives her chances. He's just too nice.
What is wrong with me? I have a pretty athletic figure with normal curves for a 17 year old girl. I have layered dark brown hair that reaches my shoulder blades, light blue-grey eyes, tan skin and a nice smile. I'm considered attractive by other guys. This girl only appreciates him for his looks; tan skin (we're both 50% Italian and have that skin tone, dark brown eyes, short wild black hair and your gorgeous smile. We have a good time when we're around each other so why doesn't he feel the same way? Maybe he does. He acts like a big flirt, but he's innocent nonetheless. That's just how his personality it. I don't get it, and by it, I mean guys and their brains. Someone, please give advice?

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  • Well, he may also think of the future. You two are good friends, and high school romantic relationships rarely survive past the first month of university. So he may be waiting to mature a bit before he asks you out or he is nervous about doing it. So he doesn't have the backbone to go through and puts up with his current gf's antics.

  • You know there is a possibility that he just isn't into you because he values your friendship. If you two dated and, god forbid, broke up for him it might be weird and maybe he doesn't want it to be that way. You'll find someone though because there are always other fish in the sea.

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