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I love my boyfriend but
I love my boyfriend but I don't think we have chemistry. The last few days (since I'm home and far away from him) I've come to realize just how much we don't get along in. I've been blind to it since I love him.
He's a great guy and I don't ever want to hurt him, but I want to explore some more. He wants to settle down and I still want to enjoy my present and have fun. He's great but I don't think he's for me and I feel so bad.
I don't know how to tell him. Never in my life had I ever imagined that I would be the one to break up with someone. I've been avoiding skyping him because I just can't understand my feelings right now.
I wish he'd just break up with me so I wouldn't feel so horrible.
Maybe you should talk to a counselor on how to handle this. It's not fair to either of you to be in a relationship where one isn't committed to it. Maybe after exploring you will find that he is right for you, but in the mean time, you aren't in the same stage of your life as he is, and that's alright. You just need to sit and talk to him about it, which is hard, but it does need to be done, but that's why I say seek a counselor to help guide you through those feelings.