how do u stop stalkin ur lover that

how do u stop stalkin ur lover that lives with u? i mean i caught him cheating and forgave him he swears it was a mistake i no better, but i still go threw his pockets and belongings, how do u stop worring about a man? i want to trust him but i just cant, i want to leave him but emotionally still love him, what to do?

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  • Decision time: 1. LEAVE HIM or 2. stop being insecure, and live with it. When you snoop- you usually find what you are looking for, and you have to decide if that is worth it.

  • OMG!! My heart goes out to the two of you!! I hope you find the strength to find your worth. There are more fish in the sea. Be careful and have a plan and a TRUE best friend!!

  • It's better to end it...before one of you does something that makes it worse.

  • You ladies need to accept yourselves and stand on your own. Your identity is not tied into being in a relationship with these guys.

    You're self-sufficient and full of worth on your own. Walk away.

  • RIGHT, SEE I NO WHAT I SHOULD DO BUT THATS THE HARD PART, HOW DO U WALK AWAY? I ACTUALLY LOVE THIS GUY BUT I NO HE DOESN'T FEEL THE SAME EVEN THO HE TELLS ME ON A REGULAR THAT HE'S IN LOVE WITH ME, IT FEELS LIKE EITHER DESION I MAKE ITS GONNA DRIVE ME CRAZY FOR A LONG TIME

  • I know it's easier said than done, but when it gets to that point it's time to walk away. Do you think that you will be ok spending the next few years stressing about what he is/has done? That stuff will drive you crazy. I'm in the same situation, but only I wishthat I could take my own advice.

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