I want a big brother

For most of my life so far all I've ever wanted is a big brother. When I was very young my parents died so I've never really had any sort of male figure in my life which may be why I'm 14 and want a big brother so bad. I have several guy friends but I wouldn't say any of them feel like a brother. I'm not going to ask for some solution to this problem because I doubt there is one, but I just wanted to share anyway.

Report this


  • newest
  • oldest
  • most replies
  • most popular
  • Coming from a bid family I understand your need for a big brother I have 3 and I'd not now what to do without them. I'd like to offer myself as your big brother

  • He is 14, don't predator him you pedo. He needs to feel cared for not raped. Good lord get this kid into a boys and girls club where adult males volunteer and help mentor children.

  • I am an only child and I always wanted a younger brother. I am gay, but I don't want s**, I want to be a mentor, spend quality time, help with life's problems, be a confidante, and a best friend. But because I'm gay some people think I'm looking for a young guy for s**. It's so unfair, and to be honest it hurts my feelings.

  • I'm an only child, and I too wanted someone that I could trust, who didn't have ulterior motives, so someone like a brother. The problem with that is that one needs to be careful because some guys will see this as an open window to get close to you with other hidden intentions. I say if you can't have a big brother, be an older sister to someone in need of one. Maybe in a mentoring program. You find that by mentoring you not only give kids the support they need from their older peers but you get that rewarding sense of being there for someone which feels just as nice as when someone is there for you. You also start to understand your own sense of power and strength, meaning you yourself can be that protective figure you seek. It's not ideal, but it truly works.

  • You aren't the only one. I really want a older brother too.. But I got an older sister and a younger brother :P

  • THere are organizations like Big Brothers and Big Sisters. Or maybe a mentoring program. But I know where you're coming from. I lost my parents too when I was young. I needed adult authority figures I could trust. I had an older brother but I lost him too (I'm a guy btw). I'm just saying I can realte.

Account Login
Is this post inapropriate?
Is this comment inapropriate?
Delete this post?