I don't know how to handle this I need help..I am 14 and he is 15

I met a boy. I fell in love with him at first sight. He had a girlfriend though. Me, him and a couple other people decided to play sexy truth or dare. There was only one boy..him..the rest were girls. Every time he got a dare he choose to do it with me while he had a girl friend. We hung out after that and texted a lot. Then next weekend me and him hung out by ourselves. We went to the woods he told me all about hard things that happened in his life and I confessed everything to him. I trusted him and was falling head over heels. We sat down on a tree branch. We had nothing else todo so we played truth or dare. He dared me to give him a b******* and I did. Then he asked to finger me and I said no. He respected that so we made out and went back to my house. He broke up with his girlfriend and I knew he was going to ask me out soon I was so excited and had to tell someone. I told my step sister everything that had happened thinking I could trust her but that was wrong. She told my parents everything that happened. They went to his house and confronted him and his parents. I was so embarrassed. I am still I love with him but can't talk to him because I don't know what will happen. My life is a wreck and I need him. What should I do?

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  • Ohhh girl. Believe me and so many others that will tell you something similar.. You are experiencing first love. Mind you, its FIRST love not last love. In your heart you are experiencing the most wonderful feeling a human can have but also it can unleash the most complicated emotions you will have to handle as well. Your world/life is truly just beginning. There are so many things you have not seen nor felt yet but one of the hardest to learn at your age is patience. Patience, is knowing that there is time and lots of it, tons of it. What you are going through is stressing you out because you dont see the light at the end of the tunnel. Your parents are mad, your sister disappointed you and last but not least you cant see the boy you are CHOOSING to love. Here is your chance. An opportunity to practice patience. Wait and let things calm down. You have all the time in the world to experience love. There is so much more to see, to experience, to feel.
    Your parents are reacting out of fear for you. Put yourself in their shoes and meditate on what you think they are feeling. Its a protective thing parents do. Also spend some alone private time thinking. Do research on relationships. This first love will turn out to be your first experience and you can be sure that there will be others. It is possible that he may be also your first real break up. You may not be wishing that but odds are against you. Take a deep breath. Brush yourself off and relax because there is more to life than one relationship and you have a lifetime to find it .

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