I don't know what I'm doing

I gave up living in a city I liked, moving away from my family (emotional support), "my daycare", and having to put my house on the market. I started my new job which came as a promotion and I dislike my boss. I only made these sacrifices because I was at the time the main bread winner and I couldn't afford not to have a job that could support us all.

Today I signed the papers to sell my home to a couple in two days. I question was all the sacrifice worth it? I am criticized, wrongfully accused, blamed and spoken to condescendingly at times. I feel like a fool but with my husband still not gainfully employed I feel trapped in the job.

I must add that I also feel guilty that I moved away from my folks after they moved from a different state to be near us. They understood why but were crushed. As was I.

Jun 18, 2014

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  • If your working with a boss you don't like your going to be miserable , no amount of money will be worth it .

  • We all make sacrifices but we also always have choices. And this move does not have to be forever. I do believe that things happen for a reason. Sometimes it's really apparent and other times it takes awhile. But know, you can work your buns off and save money, keep looking for other opportunities and then you can quit and move back and possibly rent. What will make you and your husband the happiest?

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