I'm a mess (part 2)

So I've given up everything in order to move on from my ex...
EVERYTHING! To be alone and sort my head out but instead I asked if we could sort things out!
I'm now waiting on his decision because he is happy !!
What am i doing?!?!
I'm setting myself up for another fail/break up and the wait is killing me in the process! I know he won't chose me!
We weren't perfect but we were great!
I can't not be around him or speak to him! Its painful everytime I see him and his new partner! A stabbing gut wrenching pain!
This is so pathetic! I would NEVER of saw myself like this when I was younger!

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  • You need to keep yourself busy find something you enjoy and before you
    know it you will have forgotten him .
    You can't force something that was not mean to be . Let him go and you will find the right one but if you waste your time looking back you will never see what is in front of you .

  • ^Agree. No doubt it's always hard to get over someone. You have a lot invested in this man and this relationship. But he has moved on, and so should you. You may have to feel some discomfort and wait for your heart to catch up to your head. Instead of waiting for him to choose you..Why don't you choose you. Stop giving this guy the power to control your life. Stop compromising. You say you moved to a new town? Start making friends, keep yourself busy and when you're ready a new guy who chooses you will come into your life. But let this loser go..he's had his chance.

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