My ex, in a relationship, wants to meet me.. in a romantic place
Okay I'll be honest - I don't get it. I'm a guy, broke up with my ex (woman) a few months ago, we'd been together for five years. She's been a bit of a mess, apparently confused about me, but now in a new relationship with someone she says is 'special'. She also knows I'm still in love with her.
We were chatting online last night, she said she wants to meet me for lunch soon. 'Fair enough' I thought, a cafe or something in the city, perhaps a favourite Sushi place. Then she says she wants to meet in one of two out-of-the-way, lovely botanical parks. I'm a bit surprised, very surprised. She says she wants to go 'somewhere pretty'.
I figure why not? Go with the flow, so I agree. Very next thing she says is 'no kissing though'. I tell her I'm surprised she immediately thinks of kissing me, she says it's just because it's a romantic setting...
Now I'm baffled. Why suggest a pretty/romantic setting to meet your ex whilst you're in a relationship with someone else, and expressly state 'no kissing'? Very confused as to why she didn't just pick a more normal location where kissing wouldn't have even been an issue.