Soul-not

It was ** not Love dear. I had a similar man while I was in my 20s whom had this irresistible pull towards him that I couldn’t resist and didn’t understand. I was in a relationship and had children with my boyfriend but the other man I’ve known for years was still a very deep desire inside me to keep seeing once in awhile. Thought it was love maybe but because I wasn’t sure I didn’t uproot my entire life and family for him. I finally realized as I got older (and years after I stopped that “drug” called this man who I couldn’t resist sexually) it was pure **. He wasn’t a good relationship material type sorta man and well was a regular man **. I did finally find the man I would be w rest of my life in my 30s and still married and happy same as I felt w him from day 1 and I’m glad I didn’t just jump into a ** relationship because it would have been an epic failure and absolute nightmare.

1) The term "soulmate" in the sense most people know it is the Hollywood version. Oversimplified and overdramatic, just like anything socially orientated in middle school. It doesn't even necessarily refer to a romantic partner. There, did your head explode?

2) Even if he was your soulmate, he was human just like you and therefore prone to messing things up. Nothing is written in stone.

Find someone compatible who's healthier for you than not and you'll be doing better than most people. THAT person may even be a soulmate too, just because you're not thunderstruck or seeing little cherubs fluttering around him doesn't mean he isn't one.