I was molested by my gay cousin at age

I was molested by my gay cousin at age 13. I am not interested in guys but I enjoyed what he did to me. I am 16 now, and I consider myself straight. But I still attracted to only him and girls. What do I do? Am I bi? I am confused.

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  • One time I was messing around with a friend from school. We both got turned on and sort of got carried away, and I let himj have s** with me. I was surprised because I enjoyed doing that with him. I tried it a few months later with another boy, and I didn't like it at all. You know what? Sometimes it can just be fun with the right other guy, and has nothing whatsoever to do with being Gay. That part is just a mysth perpetuated by the Gay movement ... if you do anything with another guy, then you are Gay! Not True!

  • The same thing happend to me when I was your age with an older boy. I felt kind of guilty because I had pretty likd it. I began to wonder - and fear - if I was Gay. Then I realized that I was still attracted to girls, and I started to feel a whole lot more relaxed about it. I discovered that sometimes it was just fun to have a male-moment with another guy, and that it had nothing whatsoever to do with being Gay.

  • About the same thing happened to me when I was your age. It was with an older boy that I knew. Afterwards I was kind of confused because I had pretty much enjoyed the experinece, and I thought - and kind of feared - that I was Gay. Then I realized that I was still just as attracted to girls, and I started to feel a whole lot more relaxed about it. I learned that sometimes its okay just nice for a guy to have a satisfying male moment with another guy, and that it doesn't that you are Gay at all. Just that youy like having fun.

  • No you are not gay. Don't even go there. You enjoyed the feeling. You need to focus on girls and punch that MF in the face.

  • You're a t*** stabber - nothing you can do.

  • You have a right to be confused. This guy took advantage of a young boy, and he is very sick for that. As far as liking what he did to you. . .DUH! Of course any kind of sexual stimulation will feel good, but that is much different than being attracted to him. You definitely need to seek professional help ASAP.

  • Google Stockholm Syndrome

  • That's true, you are confused, because what he did violated you on so many levels. Get into counseling, talking about it and your feelings will help you sort them out a lot better than trying to tackle it on your own.

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