I cheated on my wife, with an old

I cheated on my wife, with an old friend of mine, but I don't really feel guilty because she has not slept with me in over 3 years.

She is Catholic and never was that strict until her father died. After that she became very strict and refuses to use birth control so we stay apart. It's made me sick and when I cheated on her it was not for revenge but out of longing for affection and to be needed.

I still talk to my "FB" and she hinted she wants to start up again if I feel like it. She is clean and safe and lonely like me.

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  • Honestly, a marriage should involve s**... if you're under the age of 80. If she refuses to do anything with you, you should be up front with her... you need what you need. Cheating isn't a solution.

  • I think you should just leave her instead of cheating.

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  • I am feelin' you dog. I am in the same boat but no s**** on the side. The thing is even after I took the snip, I am not as Catholic as my wife, she still doesn't want to have s**. She keeps telling me it is a hormone thing and I am about ready to see if I can find a s****, but things like that never end well.

  • Dude have you ever thought of the possiblity that she might be cheating on you and using this birth control thing as an excuse not to sleep with you. But most importantly before you go down a path of affairs and craziness just re examine your marraige and see if it's worth saving. If you don't love her anymore of if she isn't getting the job done then it's time for the d word. Divorce. Then other women become fair game. But affairs always have a way of ending up bad for both parties.


  • Time for the snip if you deem you are done with children. By your actions you seem to not want one. Does your wife?

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