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The practical choice
I love my husband. I know you will think that's not true, but I honestly do love him. We've been married for almost a year. He's 23 years older than me, and he has a ** drive that, to be kind, is "limited". Mine, on the other hand, is off the charts. So, I cheat. Not all the time, and not brazenly, but I have other men in my life. My husband would never approve of this, much less permit it, so I don't tell him. When I go out, I simply tell him I'm meeting friends for drinks, which is always true. I just don't tell him that the friends are men, or that the drinks consist of champagne consumed in the beds of these other men, or in a room at a high-class hotel. I need more ** than is available to me at my husband's house, so I go out and find it elsewhere. It's the practical decision. And trust me when I tell you, it happens far more than you think it does.
OMG I just so completely agree with everything you said about first dates! I have done just that and just as you described it! In fact, in a few cases, when a guy would come pick me up I would go down on him as soon as he got me in the car to take me to the restaurant or club or movie or whatever: sometimes that urge just overcomes us and we HAVE to have the person we're with, right then, without waiting, and without going through all the introductory **. This works on all men, of course, but with married men, it almost always makes them fall in love right away. I adore having that effect on a man, and especially a married man, having him fall in love with you while his poor little wife is alone at home or off with his kids somewhere, oblivious to the fact that her husband has fallen for you, and that you now own him. God, I just LOVE that feeling!! And I love that you understand it!
. . . and by the way . . . speaking of married men, I had a girlfriend in high school who swore she could tell if a guy was married by how hard his ** was. She said that married men get harder when they make love to someone other than their wife, because they are so much more excited than a single man would be. I understood her thesis but I never was able to find evidence to support it in my own ** life. Just thought you might be interested in that tidbit of experiential data. :)