The practical choice
I love my husband. I know you will think that's not true, but I honestly do love him. We've been married for almost a year. He's 23 years older than me, and he has a s** drive that, to be kind, is "limited". Mine, on the other hand, is off the charts. So, I cheat. Not all the time, and not brazenly, but I have other men in my life. My husband would never approve of this, much less permit it, so I don't tell him. When I go out, I simply tell him I'm meeting friends for drinks, which is always true. I just don't tell him that the friends are men, or that the drinks consist of champagne consumed in the beds of these other men, or in a room at a high-class hotel. I need more s** than is available to me at my husband's house, so I go out and find it elsewhere. It's the practical decision. And trust me when I tell you, it happens far more than you think it does.