I want him but cant have him.....

I fallen inlove with this married man but I have a boyfriend too but this man is smitten about me and admits he likes me and asked me out a couple of times. I want to be with him and he is so sweet, funny, nice, and caring. I do my best not to cross the line and so does he. He makes me happy and I want to be with him and want to make him happy as well. But I'm afraid if we did be with each other, he would leave me and go back to his wife.It hurts to know that could happen but I am trying my hardest to keep us as friends...I dont want to hurt him nor do I want to hurt my bf either ....what do I do?

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  • Stupid f****** w**** you dirty little c*** f****** c*** s***

  • Don't get involved with this guy on any personal level that is deeper than mere friendship.

    It sounds like he is playing you. He acts like a friend, but flirts in a way that suggests that he wants more, before pulling back. He is a tease. Don't fall for it, and don't flirt and tease him back. He is married.

    I was once friends with a similar kind of guy. I loved his looks, his smarts, the way he complimented me, and even the little suggestive notes that he would write to me. Just being around him was arousing and a major high. We never crossed the line and cheated, though, lordy, we came close.

    Don't be "the woman on the side." Respect yourself. You will drive yourself into madness or misery if you pursue more than friendship from this guy.

  • Just understand the relationship. There are lots of types of relationship. Friendship. Marriage. Now days gay 'mariage' is now seen pretty much by most people as acceptable.

    When a young girl has a relationship with a married man just understand he is "just using you for s**". It can work for both of you but understand it is diffetent to friends or even your boy friend type relationship.

  • If you want to seriously date the married man, wait until he has actually left his wife and is no longer a "married" man. Until then, he's not available to you. Just because he tells you something..the fact is you don't know the whole story and the truth is he is going back to his wife. Second, if you and your boyfriend aren't working out then break up with him. Don't continue to date him because you're afraid to be alone. And you say you don't want to hurt your bf, but how do you think flirting or making plans to be with a married man isn't hurtful? Really? How would you like it if your bf was dating a married woman and says he doesn't want to hurt you, but he's waiting for her to leave her husband so he can be with her..and when she does he'll break up with you? Stop being selfish. Stop being codependent. Stop contact with this married man. If he cheats on his wife, he will most certainly cheat on you.

  • I think you should look into your soul and find what you think is the best thing to do. Don't listen to mich to the idiots saying stupid stuff. :)

  • Yeah yourself some hiv you c***

  • Try him out babe, give him your s**. You'll know then if it's going to be any good.

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