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My wife won't make love to me without 1st stripping me (often she's naked too), & puts me over her knee for a spanking. On my 50th b'day, my wife, mother-in-law & I had gone out to dinner to celebrate, we had a lot of wine with dinner & walked home (the restaurant is in our neighborhood) & had cake & champagne. As my mil left, my wife turned to me & said she had just 1 more present to give me. She stripped, then stripped me (in about 10 seconds), & took me into the living room, sat on the couch & took me across her lap for my b'day spanking. About 10 spanks into it, the door opened & in walked my mil, who stopped dead in her tracks as she took in the scene before her. I carrened my neck around (as she came into the room from my blindside). I tried getting up, but my wife was having non of that as she held me down, telling me it was too late, her mom has already seen me spanking you. The women talked without my wife missing a beat, telling her it was a family tradition. My mil laughed, saying it was a whole new side of me she hadn't seen before. When my wife finished, & I was let up, all 4 cheeks were red, then she said she too wanted to wish me a happy b'day, & over her knee I went. When she finished, she asked my wife if their were any other family traditions as she held me in place. My wife said yes, she then flips me over, & since my ** are very sensitive, she usually ** on & bites them before blowing out my candle. So my mil went to town on me & came off of my male muscle just before I lost control & finished me off with her hand & me shooting into the air as both women laughed. Now, both women have there way with me, & I get spanked on their b'day's as well. markiee

The Best !!!

My girlfriend spanks me for fun and sometimes as discipline. If I do something she doesn't like, she gives me a few swats on the seat of my pants with her hand. She does this quite often in front of other people. When we are in private, she goes further. Then it's across her knee for a good hard paddling that leaves bruises on my bottom. We both find spanking arousing, and we would recommend other couples to try it.

My wife spanks me in private but will also land a firm swat or two in public or in front of others as a warning or attention getter.

I am spanked by my wife too. I didn't ask her to and it started when she was complaining to our sister in law about my behavior. Sister in Law told her "you should take down his pants and put him over your knee and give him a good spanking !" When I heard this I got aroused at the thought. My wife was taken back at first, but the more our sister in law said about how she found spanking her late husband really changed his attitude and improved their marriage the more interested my wife became. When she left my wife told me to get into the bedroom and she told me she was going to heed the advice and give me a good spanking. Well she did and has been every since !

Good for your wife. Husbands need regular very sound and thorough bare bottom spankings. But then, you know already know that. You should thank your wife for doing it, and if you haven’t already, contact her sister and thank her too. Kate

I agree. We should have our bottoms spanked hard enough that we can not sit down for the next few hours. My girlfriend and I have met three or four other couples where the woman disciplines her partner with spankings. All of them agree that it is beneficial for their relationship.

With my girlfriend given the authority to punish me for lack of attention when she is talking to me, for not completing tasks given me, for back talking or raising my voice disrespectfully to her(no cursing is ever used) having a bladder problem I wear diapers and rubber ** at night. I am told if I don’t get out of bed and go pee and wet my diaper on purpose, I will get a good spanking over her knee on my bear wet bottom. She k eps me motivated and not just giving up and acting out r getting old. So yes her spankings on my bare bottom is very beneficial to our relationship

We were having our daughter’s wedding in our home! My wife gave me long honey do list of at least 20 things! I did 2 of them but she was not satisfied with my work! So she gave me 25 horrendous swats with my frat paddle. This left my ** in a tenderized state. I did some more tasks on the list but again not to her satisfaction. She was like a strict army sergeant ! Sooooob out came the frat paddle again and she addressed my already bruised **! Long story short ! For two weeks right up to the wedding , my bottom was constantly pulsating from the many swats I received every other day !! I had to eat my piece of wedding cake while standing! Disgraziato

When I get spanked over her lap on the lace of her slip and nylon stockings and girdle I cheer for her to "Spank it some more! Harder! Harder! Or I'll say when I want her to go to town on my ** to ' Whack me with your Best Shots! Go ahead Whack me with your Best Shots! Fire 🔥 Away!" She does it like at least 250!

I'm not sure why but being spanked by my wife has definitely made me a better husband and has improved our marriage. Even if all is good I usually get an otk reminder once a week.

The Otk is best twice a week when I need it

I am spanked by my wife for being a naughty boy, a sissy boy, a fairy boy.
She has told many people that i am a cuckold. She likes making me show my chastity cage to others. She makes me in front of others on my knees please real men. Then she lets whoever wants to spank my ** boy bare bottom until i cant sit down for a month as punishment. I am so ashamed and so excited. Please let me do naughty things. Please spank me hard.

I get spanked regularly. Once a week for maintenance or more often if I slip up. I get spanked for attitude control. My sins were that I loved sweets and gained a lot of weight. Never exersized either. Her spankingd changed all that. Weight dropped a lot by cutting out sweets and the threats if I didn't exersize every day were enough to keep me active working out. Never wore a pantie or used any sexual devices durring my spankings. The items she uses are all made of wood if various widths and thicknesses. All hurt like ** on my bare ** and any marks remain through any of the weekly maintence spankings. If any one ever seen my ** they would think I was run over by a semi truck. There is not a day that goes by I do not feel what she does to me. Love her for her concern about me.

I get spanked as well for various reasons and attitudes. Now and then we'll be going along fine and out of the blue my wife spanks me soundly!
Her sister was visiting once and I was mowing the lawn. My wife got my attention by waving to me from the deck, she then motioned me to come to her with the hairbrush that was in her hand. As I got closer she loudly said "You're going over my knee come inside." I looked quickly to see if neighbors were out and asked her where her sister was? She said she was in the shower so we had to make it fast. I argued she might hear, my wife paid no attention but she did stick her head in the hall bath to make sure her sister was showering. in our room she was all business and made me quickly bare my bottom. I went over her leg as she say on our bed and within two minutes she was done and I had no desire to sit down whatsoever! My wife simply stated "You needed that!" she told me to go finish the lawn or I'd get another. Her sister was still showering when we went downstairs so she didn't hear anything thank goodness. Does anyone else get it out of the blue? William

William do you have children? Do they know how Mummy treats you? If they are girls will they get spanking privileges when they are old enough? If there are no children, would you want to be spanked by your sister in law?

I am not William but I can understand his embarrassment at being spanked by the wooden spoon especially when his mother in law was in the house.
When I was a child I got spanked at school and when I got home my sisters told my mother that I had been spanked. She then spanked me in front of my sisters and told me to stand up with my ** in full display. How embarrassing especially when my ** was erect because I actually get turned on by being spanked.

I used to spank my wife during **. I slipped up one night about her spanking me. She loved it. We then established some rules. She was now in charge, I was getting a spanking when I had done something she did not like. She decided that I need to be wearing ** before each spanking. She bought me several pair. When she is going to spank me, she tells me to put on my **, which I do. She sits in a chair with me over her knees. She pulls the ** down exposing my bare bottom. She tells me now you deserve this, so you are going to get it. She uses a leather strap, that hurts so bad. My bottom turns red, and I am in tears before she is done. I usually get around a 100 strokes before she is done. I have learned to do some chores without complaining. It does not take much for her to
get the strap. It feels so good when it's finally over. I feel more relaxed, like I got an **. I love her so much.

I do get it "out of the blue" as you wrote so I'm always trying to be a great husband or behave myself knowing I can end up over her lap anytime.
After going almost a year without an incident my wife told me on a Saturday morning that she planned to have me over her lap sometime that weekend and asked if there was a time I preferred. I reminded her I was going golfing that morning which she already knew. I asked if I'd done anything and she said not that she knew of but felt it was a good time for it. I went golfing and returned home, we went out to dinner with friends and nothing was said until we returned home. It wasn't too late so my wife called me upstairs to undress and told me she was going to spank me then. Using her hand and a wooden hairbrush my wife reminded me to keep behaving as I had been. I was still sitting uncomfortably in the wooden pews the next morning and behaving for another long stretch of time, hopefully.

Yes in our back room sometimes next door are out and she says that is part of my spanking being seen

Maintenance Spankings? Straight canes are hidden in every room of the house! So I walk on eggs shells all day long as to not make her angry ! I’ll receive a quick 6 or 12 stroke sometimes twice a week! She was playing bridge with her lady friends & I said something which really made her angry ! So she pointed to the next room where she closed the door & gave me 6 of the best with her thickest cane! The cane is silent compared to other implements ! So when I later served the girsl their drinks , one lady innocently said : “D” sit down and take a load off! You seem all flushed & red faced .🙄 Disgraziato

More and more women seem to be spanking their husband or boyfriend nowadays. I guess this a result of the changing relationship between the sexes. I wonder if this trend will continue and if it will become normal for husbands to obey their wives and to be firmly disciplined if they don't?

It’s mistress or else but I love it

I get spanked by my wife for misbehaving or failing to do my chores. I am sent to the bedroom to get naked and await her arrival. I go over her knees for a bare bottom spanking. She usually starts with her hand and then switches to her wooden paddle. I never know how long they are going to last as some are rather short and others continue until I'm on the verge of tears.
I am much more well behaved and our marriage is so much better once she took control.

Glad to find out I'm not the only guy who gets it ftom his wife although I would never have thought on a thousand years I'd get spanked as an adult. My wife is really sweet kind and gentle but when I do something to really ** up or make her angry I dont want to mess with her. When she's decided to spank there's usually no changing her mind or her serious demeanor. If I'm sent to wait for her to deal with me I'm nervous while waiting. She comes in and goes full force and in about a minute she's done and so is my **!
I think I'm really a better husband to her because of how she handles me but I don't enjoy the process!

My S.O. has been spanking me for several years. We keep a paddle hanging on the wall in the bedroom. When she thinks I need to be disciplined, she gives me ten to twenty hard smacks with it on the seat of my underpants or on my bare bottom, and she makes sure that they really sting! As with Belle and her husband, we have found that spanking has improved our relationship. Spanking me helps my partner to relieve her feelings and as for me, I would much rather be soundly paddled than be in the doghouse. Especially as I find that the pain and shame of a spanking is mingled with excitement!

My husband asked me to start spanking him and I reluctantly agreed. I did not realize the power it would give me! He is a foot taller and a hundred pounds heavier but he meekly goes and gets the bath brush and bends over the arm of the couch when I order a spanking. And I give it to him hard! He is much better behaved than he used to be but we still have a long ways to go. But our relationship is much, much better. He thinks so too ...
Belle

I asked my wife to spank me over 30 years ago and i have never regretted it. We are partners in most things but i know that if I get out of hand that i will soon be over her lap kicking and bawling my eyes out as she spanks my bare backside.
After a couple of years of spanking when i needed it she switched to weekly maintenance spankings, non of which are a picnic. I can still earn extra spankings with my behavior but i can guarantee a sound spanking at least weekly.
When our kids were younger i was spanked when they were asleep but as they became preteens this was a problem so we decided that they should know that mom disciplined me as well.
The kids were spanked in front of each other but i am always taken to our room and my discipline is private, but easily heard throughout the house.

Good for your wife, you should be howling and bawling when you are getting your bare bottom thoroughly spanked, and she should carry on for a considerable time after that, that’s the point when the real punishment spanking starts. Our kids are preteen too, they know I spank their dad, they sure here it, he gets it in the next room and it’s a very noisy affair. Everyone watches the kids get spanked. He thinks maybe they should see him get it too but we haven’t got that far, may leave the adjoining door open soon though, but spank him out of line of sight

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It was the same with me, he was spanked often by an aunt as a boy, 8 to almost 16 years old, took a long time before I agreed to give it a try. After one time, the sense of power and how aroused I got, took to it like a duck to water. I thrash his bare bottom soundly, hairbrush and genuine tawse, he is secured at his request or he would just stand up, he howls and bawls but I don’t let up, that arouses me the more. Kate

Very similar experience, she was reluctant, I knew I needed it, once she started she realized it helped both of us, she felt less frustrated, I felt relieved of feeling guilty for whatever I had done to annoy her, she uses a hairbrush with thick wooden surface, neither of us likes OTK so I bend over couch in living room when she tells me to, our agreement is I accept if she tells me to bend over without reason, but she must tell me reason afterward. before she started paddling me I was irritable and would argue unfairly, now I am obedient and it works better, I am tall and she is short and chubby but still very attractive to me, the paddling really hurts and I've seen my bottom in the mirror very red, but it doesnt leave nasty welts like belts and canes. After a hard paddling she wont make love that night, but lets me kiss her beautiful big ** which she knows I like. I had a hard time at first accepting that I was submissive with her because I am in charge and have a lot of responsibility at work, but we both are happier with her realizing how dominant she is and how it works for us that I obey her. When we went on holiday twice before corona, she took the hairbrush and used it, usually if she thinks I have not been respectful to her in front of others, and I knew I deserved it, we turned on the tv loudly so people in next room wouldnt hear. It was one of her hardest, she told me she had to so it wouldnt ruin the holiday by her being angry with me for days, and she was right.

I am not sure if turning up the tv is a good idea. It might make the people in the next room complain. If they hear the sound of a spanking, they might not realise what it is and assume that the chambermaid is beating a carpet or something similar. I am glad to hear that spanking works for you though. It is much better than your wife being angry with you for days and ruining the holiday. I think a lot of relationships would be improved if the woman wore the pants and her partner obeyed her.

After reading your article I had to beg my wife and now she appreciates the results.

Belle: it really works as I have had to beg my wife to spank me: our life has improved and my tension from work evaporates.

I would like a women to give me a bath & put me in pajamas around 1pm for a spanking and keep me in pajamas all day

I am spanked and caned by my wife of 48 years and I love her for doing it. Total stress release and the after glow is very arousing. Perfect wife!

My wife spanks me as well. I have assigned chores and she expects them completed and done properly. Any ** up and I am put over her knees for a bare bottom spanking. She uses a wooden paddle. For major offenses, I lean over the arm chair and get repeated smacks with the leather belt. I'm usually left weeping and apologizing.

My wife spanked me & has admitted that she loves the feeling of power. It is a massive stress reliever for her too.

I can assure you that’s very true

After admitting that wearing girly clothes turns me on, when I do it my wife started hiring a male ** to come around and spank me over his knees, one time it was one of her work colleagues, she charges it to my credit card. she thinks it will cure me. it really wont.