Homewrecker

I like one of my guy friends who is bi, he's been dating this kind of a****** guy for almost 5 years, they might wanna get married or not, I've seen most relationships that go 5+ years and dont end up getting married fail so I really want them to break up. The guy he's dating does like him and stuff but he's not a nice person really. He can be when he wants to be but otherwise the way he talks and acts to people who don't agree with him or are wrong (and he loves to rub it in that they're wrong and proclaim why in front of people to make a scene)is just so rude and I hope it doesnt rub off. In retrospect if we dated, I don't think it'd work out because relationship wise I don't think we're that compatible/sometimes I get really angry at him when he does stuff to p*** me off and he doesn't know that irks me and kind of brushes it off (which normally he would consider not to do again but I think this is part of the whole a****** brushing off of him). Honestly I think they're just together because it was good timing. He got out of a horrible relationship and I'm not too sure about the other.

Even though I do like his boyfriend when he's tame, I really want him to find someone else. Guy I like is pretty attractive and funny and we flirt a f*** ton, but he's also a giant flirt with everyone (mostly friend flirting) however he does so more to me via touching and likes to be kind of sexual with me (touch thighs, rub face on my neck/back, spoon me, pin me down, etc.) which is weird... so I mean I get really irked that he does that because we've almost accidentally kissed before and he's mentioned we'd make a cute couple (and at the time I just tried to deter the convo away because it was always with people present, including his bf)

VERY FRUSTRATED WITH THIS PERSON AND JUST SAFJHLKFHKDS I THINK ALL I NEED TO DO IS HAVE S** WITH HIM AND WE'RE GOOD HOWEVER WE'RE BOTH VIRGINS IF YOU CAN BELIEVE IT SO THAT'S OUT THE WINDOW UNLESS I CAN SEDUCE HIM OR HAVE HIM KISS ME.

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  • Your gay friend is a virgin after five years with his boyfriend? You seriously believe that??

  • We can choose our friends, we can't always choose (or like) who our friends date or marry. Sort of a rule of life. So to give you some peace of mind, you can always choose to limit your time with that person when the significant other is around or only arrange to see them one on one. He's a guy, who's been with a guy for 5 years? I highly doubt he's still virgin. He may not have had s** with a woman yet, but there's no guarantee that sleeping with him will swing him the other way. He could sleep with a woman and it could confirm he's actually not bi. Maybe your best course of action would be to stop being so involved in this guy's life or find a guy to like who's single and straight and keep this guy as your friend.

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