Elsie mother in law update

Thanks for the advice well I have acted upon some . I want to confess. My soni in law was over alone. He kissed me on the lips as He was leaving. I replied that was nice. He called again alone he kissed me again on the lips this time I responded to his kiss totally it lasted for ages as he left he said we can do better than nice. Oh yes he has felt the same as me .
The next time he called I was totally wanting more from him . In my small kitchen I felt him brush against my b******.
should I try for more now or what
confused Elsie

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  • That how is started with my son-in-law. Little pecks goodbye (our family does that anyway) at first and a little longer until it's clear that it's more than a goodbye kiss. If he doesn't respond well, you have your answer without a risk and otherwise things just naturally take their course

  • Avoid Immoral Women
    1My son, pay attention to my wisdom;
    listen carefully to my wise counsel.
    2Then you will show discernment,
    and your lips will express what you’ve learned.
    3For the lips of an immoral woman are as sweet as honey,
    and her mouth is smoother than oil.
    4But in the end she is as bitter as poison,
    as dangerous as a double-edged sword.
    5Her feet go down to death;
    her steps lead straight to the grave.
    6For she cares nothing about the path to life.
    She staggers down a crooked trail and doesn’t realize it.
    7So now, my sons, listen to me.
    Never stray from what I am about to say:
    8Stay away from her!
    Don’t go near the door of her house!
    9If you do, you will lose your honor
    and will lose to merciless people all you have achieved.
    10Strangers will consume your wealth,
    and someone else will enjoy the fruit of your labor.
    11In the end you will groan in anguish
    when disease consumes your body.
    12You will say, “How I hated discipline!
    If only I had not ignored all the warnings!
    13Oh, why didn’t I listen to my teachers?
    Why didn’t I pay attention to my instructors?
    14I have come to the brink of utter ruin,
    and now I must face public disgrace.”
    15Drink water from your own well—
    share your love only with your wife.
    16Why spill the water of your springs in the streets,
    having s** with just anyone?
    17You should reserve it for yourselves.
    Never share it with strangers.
    18Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you.
    Rejoice in the wife of your youth.
    19She is a loving deer, a graceful doe.
    Let her b****** satisfy you always.
    May you always be captivated by her love.
    20Why be captivated, my son, by an immoral woman,
    or fondle the b****** of a promiscuous woman?
    21For the lord sees clearly what a man does,
    examining every path he takes.
    22An evil man is held captive by his own sins;
    they are ropes that catch and hold him.
    23He will die for lack of self-control;
    he will be lost because of his great foolishness.

  • I could use your advice. I'm in a similar situation but I'm the son in law.
    For around 1 year, my mil's been bending down in front of me all the time, allowing her t*** to become almost fully visible down to the nipples when looking down the loose shirt collar, even after being told by her daughter that I've been looking. She lifted her dress up a little past her upper thigh, right where the outer ass cheek starts, to show me a bruise that was on her lower thigh near the knee and kept it there, just staring at me. She pulled my head around 3 inches from her dangling t*** while she was wearing an insanely revealing top, just to give me a kiss on my head, has found ways to "accidentally" get her head a few inches from my crotch a few times and once even, from what I could tell, pretended to fumble a book I handed her, only to drop it by my feet and solidly graze my crotch with her head as she stood back up. She acts differently when no one's around and on occasion will be a little looser than usual with me in front of her daughter. She once gave me a hug after i brought her a little gift and let her t*** press up on my chest and my d*** lightly against her, both for the first time (no one around). She'll gently stroke my arm when I leave, and even my bare chest on 2 occasions but that was very subtle. I even once found her hovering over me while I was "asleep" she saw me with my b**** sticking out from my waist line went I went for a p*** at around 3am. She was leaning over me, staring at my face and then nonchalantly walked away when I opened my eyes. I started reciprocating by sometimes letting my crotch touch her by accident and she never moves away. I'd like to get her to make the first move.

  • I love the fact that you are cheating on your husband -- I've done that myself several times and I loved every second -- but I love even more that, at the same time, you are cheating on your daughter, too. So sexy. So loving. So beautiful. So perfect. I wish you only more luck. And more love.

  • Exactly! It feels less wrong because it's not outside the family but more wrong because it's your daughter's man. The combination = the hottest s** ever.

  • My son in law started flirting and coming on to me almost as soon as he started dating my daughter and eventually the pressure got to be too much and i gave in and gave him everything he wanted. if he hadnt been the aggressor i know nothing would of ever happened between us but i am so glad it did and i am so glad he kept after me so hard. all the work he put into getting with me let me now how much he loved me. and he still loves me.


  • My son-in-law and I had an affair between 2004 and 2011, and it was really serious. He wanted to leave my daughter and he wanted me to leave my husband so we could be together, but I couldn't stand the idea of being so open about it. We live in a small town and it would have been a huge gigantic unbelievable scandal. So, instead he broke up with me and after about a month, he started dating my best girlfriend, the only one in the world who had known about the affair other than my son-in-law and myself. He did it to hurt me, and it worked. But it hurt even more when he actually did leave my daughter and then later on marry my best friend. Or I should say my ex best friend, because she and I no longer speak to one another. And I couldn't say anything about how long he had been cheating before he left home for Deandra, because before he moved in with Deandra, it was me he'd been f******. It was a real clusterfuck but there wasn't much I could do about it, except watch as the love of my life started dating my best friend behind my daughter's back, and then watch the two of them get married. And now, they have a child together and another on the way (which I think is totally sick but that's another story). I tell you this so you will know: this s*** gets really complicated really fast, and you could very easily get hurt by it all.



  • God you are such sexy marriage material and i wish you were my wife i would let you play whenever you wanted to damn you are so sexy

  • Here's the thing. Cheating has become so commonplace that it's almost lost all of its thrill. So the best way to liven up adultery is to up the ante, like by cheating with the spouse of someone in your own family, just like you're doing. I think what you're doing is exciting and inspiring and admirable. PLEASE don't stop. Keep going!

  • Your playing with fire and your going to get burned.

  • My daughter and son-in-law got married on Valentine's Day this year. By that time, he and I had already been at it heavy for seven months. By summertime, we were already talking about starting a family together, in secret of course. By their first anniversary, I expect to be very pregnant with his child (I know she won't be because she's still on her pills, and I got off mine). I challenge you to do the same. Have him knock your ass up, and then carry that b****** baby right under your daughter's nose, never letting her know the powerful secret between you and her husband.

  • Next time your husband is away for the evening, text your son-in-law when you know he's home with your daughter and tell him to come to your house and finish what he's been starting. Be bold, be clear, be direct. Tell him you want him. "Now". Tell him that play-time is over, and it's time to start getting serious.

  • I think you should allow him to make the initial move to establish a physical relationship. Men want to be in charge, or they at least want to believe they are. :) You've already laid some pretty incredible ground work (well done!), so just keep up the pressure by keeping up the sexy kissing, and let him think it was all his idea!

  • Add to this some slightly more revealing attire anytime he comes over, arouse him without doing or saying anything that would be initiative. He will get more risky if he sees the smallest bit of assurance that he is on the right track.

  • ^ Yes perfect!!!! ^

  • 3As he was speaking, the teachers of religious law and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in the act of adultery. They put her in front of the crowd.

    4“Teacher,” they said to Jesus, “this woman was caught in the act of adultery. 5The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?”

    6They were trying to trap him into saying something they could use against him, but Jesus stooped down and wrote in the dust with his finger. 7They kept demanding an answer, so he stood up again and said, “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!” 8Then he stooped down again and wrote in the dust.

    9When the accusers heard this, they slipped away one by one, beginning with the oldest, until only Jesus was left in the middle of the crowd with the woman. 10Then Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?”

    11“No, Lord,” she said.

    And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more.”
    (Quote from the Son of God; John 8)

  • The moral of this story is that the accusers of the woman caught in the act of adultery were all engaged in the same sin, and so they shouldn't be allowed to punish her for their own acts. My point? Everybody's cheating. Why get hung up on it? I say go ahead and s*** the young man until neither of you can walk. Or breathe. Or think. Or remember your spouses' names. Get happy!!

  • What are you waiting for? A notary to confirm that you'll be getting hot passionate s** with your son-in-law? Go for it!

  • ^ Absolutely so ^. Excellent advice!!!

  • I had a 2yr affair with my son-in-law which ended a little over 5yrs ago (because we almost got caught more than once) and it was the best time of my life. Go for it and don't let him get away. And don't make the mistake I made: don't ever let him go.

  • You've totally hooked this man. NOW REEL HIM IN!!!!

  • Keep kissing him like you did the last time. He'll eventually take charge and give you what your looking for.

  • So delicious. I certainly hope you capture him. Please let us know!

  • Yes! Report back often and tell us how it's going between the two of you!

  • My mother in law is a really super nasty piece. i would do her every day if she allowed it. and i would give anything to stab that ass of hers.

  • S**-ay!!!!!

  • You need to have one of your makeout sessions with him while your daughter is in the house! Hot!

  • I wish you were MY mother-in-law!!

  • Go out today to your favorite lingerie store and buy yourself 4 or 5 of the sexiest outfits you can find. Then, when you see him next time, put the sexiest one on and be ready for him on his arrival. Always wear something sexy when you know he'll be there. And even whenever the family is all together, wear something slinky, provocative or slightly revealing. Do all of this just for him. And let him know it's just for him. Go out of your way to present yourself for him in a very sensual way. Do or wear or say something to make his d*** hard every time he sees you. Make him want you more than he wants her.

  • Love this idea and the only thing i would add to it is to consider taking your man with you when you go to the lingerie store and let him help you pick out the outfits and maybe s*** you in the change room.......

  • Whenever he's at your house again and nobody else is home attack him as soon as he walks through your door.

  • Next time he comes to your house tell him he won't be able to leave until he does you.........in all three holes.

  • Tell him that any time he has a bad day that you want him to call you, or to come see you, or to come get inside your body. Be the place he wants to go and should go when he wants comfort and encouragement. And love.

  • My daughter and son-in-law have a fairly turbulent relationship so I made it clear that he could talk to me if ever things were wrong. It evolved into something more. I help smooth things over, get a younger man, and help their relationship work. Win win.

  • I just love all those sweet sweet kisses and i just know the s** will be even sweeter. enjoy each other!

  • You're going to have to stop being so restrained. He doesn't want you to be restrained. He wants you to climb all over him. Go after him. Don't take "no" for an answer, and he won't give you that answer.

  • Don't let anyone make you feel ashamed of what you want from your son-in-law. Or what he wants from you. Take him. F*** him. Repeatedly. Make him yours. Stop waiting.

  • I think I could have had s** with my son in law when I was younger but I've gained quite a few pounds since those days and don't think he'd go for it. Still wonder what could have been. Don't live with regret.

  • Yes you should totally try for more now. and i hope you do! get that man!

  • You need to be very careful because you are in jeopardy of destroying your marriage and your daughter's marriage. Is that worth the little games you're playing with this young man? You should stop and think about it.

  • Not quite two years ago, my then-22yo daughter married a man 3 years older than me. He and I didn't have much interaction prior to the wedding, but since then have gotten to know each other much better, and we have discovered that we have many of the same interests in literature, art, theater and ballet, and are both hockey fans, none of which my husband or daughter have any tolerance for. We've also both confessed an intense physical attraction for the other, though nothing sexual has happened. Yet. I think we both know that inevitably we will become s** partners, and that ultimately we will marry. There's just something in the way we look at each other that makes it crystal clear (at least to me) that we are headed toward that destination: we certainly look at each other with a hunger, and that is noticeable to those who care to look. I have even reached the point that it won't bother me to lose my husband or daughter, because I see this man -- technically my "son"-in-law, even though I'm younger than he is -- as my future. I can't wait for the s** to begin. Or for the wedding, which I am already planning. :)

  • 3As he was speaking, the teachers of religious law and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in the act of adultery. They put her in front of the crowd.

    4“Teacher,” they said to Jesus, “this woman was caught in the act of adultery. 5The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?”

    6They were trying to trap him into saying something they could use against him, but Jesus stooped down and wrote in the dust with his finger. 7They kept demanding an answer, so he stood up again and said, “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!” 8Then he stooped down again and wrote in the dust.

    9When the accusers heard this, they slipped away one by one, beginning with the oldest, until only Jesus was left in the middle of the crowd with the woman. 10Then Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?”

    11“No, Lord,” she said.

    And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more.”

    ("The Son of God" LOVES YOU . . . see John 8)

  • Have you had other affairs? If so, were they with younger men, or more mature men, or a mix? How long did they last usually? Are any of them still going on?

  • I'm in my late 60s now, but throughout most of my 40s and 50s I had a super-heated affair with my son-in-law, and it was the best relationship of my life, sexual and romantic and otherwise. I had cheated on my husband multiple times before, but it was never anything meaningful. But with my son-in-law, I wasn't just cheating on my husband: I was cheating on my daughter, too, and it was powerful and wonderful. We would probably still be together, but we had to end it, for the most part (we still see each other 4-5 times a year, in deep secret), because he got a job transfer opportunity that he couldn't pass up. Or so he said. I still consider it possible that my daughter got wind of the intensity of his relationship with me and made him apply for that transfer. But in any event, I loved him and he loved me, and we were happy. Happier together than we were with our spouses. So, I tell you that simply to say that I think you should let go of your inhibitions and go get this young man of yours. Reading between the lines of your original posting, I truly believe this young man is already yours, so all you have to do is reach out and take him. If your daughter was doing her job, he wouldn't be making out with you in your kitchen. Begin to think of him as already belonging to you, and just take him. Just take him. Take him. Reach out and take him from your daughter. Do it today. There's no reason to wait. The sooner you begin, the longer the affair will last and the better everything will be for you. Good luck and happy f****** to you.

  • Does your husband allow you to play? Or will this be strictly extracurricular? Either way, what you're doing is lovely and beautiful. And hot!!!! And I wish you good luck!

  • Once youve begun the affair you need to find out from him everything that your daughter wont do for him sexually and do all of that for him so that he has more reason to come to you than to her for all his sexual needs and fantasies and so you will always be ahead of her with him because you want to win always

  • Knowing not only that my son-in-law not only wants a woman my age but wants me MORE than her is the hottest feeling

  • I think this must be some of the hottest and sexiest kissing ever!!

  • ^I completely agree^. OMG!

  • Sorry to say but your daughter clearly isn't taking care of this man at home, that means it's perfectly okay for you to take care of him at your home.

  • It all sounds lovely. I hope you get him, soon, and long.

  • Really hot. wish my son-in-law would do me.

  • I wish the same thing for mine. He is sooooo hung, I love him. I just wish he would stick that thing in my body and never take it out.

  • I have the same issue as these other ladies just above. I have something like l*** and something like love for my son-in-law (married to my daughter for almost 1 year), and I f****** swear to f****** God......if that man made a move on me, I would gladly give up everything I have for just one night in his bed having him f*** me like the f***-crazed animal he is turning me into.

  • He'll never make a move. Even if the signals are strong, her husband is never going to think that his wife's mother would ACTUALLY have s** with him and even if he did, the chance of being wrong is too risky. Make the move clearly and directly and he won't say no.

  • I think that one day, after a few years of an affair with this young man, you and he will go to your daughter together, so that you can tell her, "I'm sorry to hurt you, honey, but I'm taking your husband." That will be a wonderful day for you and for him, and it will be incredibly sexy. The two of you will be a couple forever.

  • Next time he kisses you as he's leaving your house, hold the kiss; do not let him break it, keep your tongue in his mouth, and keep kissing and kissing and kissing. Then, just before you end the kiss, lean closer into him and press your hip against his fly. Naturally, he's going to be hard when you do that. Then, when you end the kiss, grab him by the belt, hard, look deeply into his eyes, and tell him, "I have a rule that you need to know about: if I make it hard.....it's mine!" Then start kissing him again, even deeper, and cup your other hand over the front of his pants and squeeze the meat. Then, when that kiss ends, look at him again -- with one hand still gripping his belt, and the other still squeezing his meat through his pants -- and say, "It's bedtime, darling", and lead him by the belt into your bedroom. Don't run, but don't dawdle: just get there. Once there, pull him down onto the bed, still dressed, and resume the kiss, horizontally. Don't take time to undress yourself or him before you get him onto your bed, because that will just provide opportunities and delays for him to back out: DO NOT ALLOW HIM TO THINK. He obviously wants you, and all you need to do is keep him on track to get you. If you're any good at dirty talk, use it once he's on your bed, telling him how bad you want him and how bad you know he wants you, and ramp it up into filthy talk. If you aren't any good at the talk, just keep your tongue in his mouth.....or elsewhere. At this point, you don't need any more instruction. You know what to do. So......just do it. :)

  • It sounds like he's just afraid, because of the circumstances and you being his wife's mother, and so he's waiting for you to make the first move. So make it! I think this will be an incredibly exciting relationship for both of you and there's no reason not to go for it! And have fun!

  • I agree with this^.......i am in love with my m-i-l and i want her so bad i can taste her. i fantasize about her constantly and my hunger for her has gotten to the point that any time i am inside my wife my eyes are closed and i am imagining it is her mom. i think her mom knows how i feel but she never acknowledges it and never seems open to it. but i swear to f****** god if she ever opened that door a crack i would go rushing through it and never ever come out. i love her completely and i am more aroused by her than any woman ever in my life. but i cant make the move because of what the consequences could be and out of the fear of being wrong. so........for me......please, elsie......don't leave your son-in-law hanging in limbo. he wants you and hes afraid and i hope you will bring him in and calm his fears and fulfil his dreams and complete his life and love him. and i hope you will keep him permanently. its what i want from my m-i-l and what i will almost surely never have. it would be nice to know that someone else is having it. thank you!!!

  • Same here. I would do my wife's mom in a heartbeat, but I could never move on her first without a clear indication that she would respond favorably.

  • You're a disgrace - how could you betray your daughter.

    She needs a divorce and you need a smackdown

  • ^ ditto ^

  • Don't be confused.......he isn't confused....not at all. he wants you so bad he can taste it. just go for it. NOW! stop waiting. the only thing you have to decide before you make your play (and the one proposed by the first commenter is an excellent choice) is whether you want to allow him to continue his marriage with your daughter while the two of you are having an affair, or you want to f*** him just one or two or three times and then it's over, or you want him all to yourself....permanently. you don't need to tell him which you want before you f*** him, but you need to have that in your mind before you open your legs, so that everything you do from the point he enters your body is directed toward your ultimate goal. to be honest? i hope you decide to have the affair throughout his marriage, and then let him decide (eventually) that your daughter could never keep up with you, so HE decides to divorce her and come to you. that would be so sexy, don't you think? and if you are already married, and especially to your daughter's father, this is going to get reeeeeeally HOT. YOU GO GIRL!!

  • Next time I would be wearing a robe loosely tied that would "accidentally" fall open, then the ball is in his court. Just giggle and silly that silly robe always comes untied, but don't try to close it until you have your answer.

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