I honestly hope my wife dies tonight

She just left . For no reason. She is a hateful person and I hope she gets hit by a bus. I did nothing. I never hit her, never denied her anything. Have been giving her all my money for 17 years. Trusted her. Loved her. Even tried to understand when she lost her s** drive when she hit menopause. Never cheated. Never hurt her. 17 years...wow. I wish I could hope she's ok...but I can't. I don't deserve this.

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  • Dump her.

  • I think you spelled the problem out buddy. If you really truly love someone then even if they walk out on you then you still hope the best for them.

    Everything you said indicates that the love you had is gone, probably has been for some time since it doesn't just instantly evaporate like that. She picked up on it, realised what you really felt and thought deep down, and acted on it.

    If you're the type to wish she gets hit by a bus the moment she's gone then she's better off without you.

  • That's the world.
    Really, you don't know why?
    Any previous discussion?
    Any reason?
    Family, relative, friends?
    She may be in a psychological problem and needs help...

  • ^ Agree. Sorry this is happening to you. But it's sort of hard to believe that she never indicated to you that she was not happy at all. And you say you did nothing... Maybe that's it. Not meaning to cheat. But maybe the things you thought you were doing right were not the things she needed. But that should have been up to her to let you know why she's unhappy. And there have been no hints..17 years is a long time. People do change and do grow apart, even right under your nose. And her parents or siblings or friends don't know where she is? Are you sure she wasn't kidnapped? You do deserve an explanation, that is for certain.

  • Divorce her.

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