My wife dates black men. Not many, and not often, but she dates them. I think her mother knows, but if her dad found out, he would probably kill her. If MY parents found out, they would probably kill ME.

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  • My wife and I have been married for 8 years and have 2 kids. After she had the second one, she had her tubes tied. Soon afterwards, after nights out with the girls, I noticed several times she came home with love bites on her neck and b**** which she tried to hide with makeup. After a weekend at the beach with the girls she came home with both nipples pierced and not wearing her wedding band. I told her of my suspicions and she said we needed to talk. Actually she did most of the talking while I listened. She started with things are different now. She said she still loved me and we would stay together but that she had been dating this black guy she worked with. There was nothing for me to worry about because she could not get pregnant when they had unprotected s** since she had her tubes tied. They decided she would stop wearing our wedding ring and had bought her a new diamond over the weekend. It was being sized and she would start wearing it when is was done. Also, we would not be having s** very often and when we did I would use a condom. That was 3 years ago. Since then when she is with him she is often passed around to his friends. If they are over at our house, I am to stay in the garage. I have never seen her with him or any of his friends. My parents and hers, as well as most of our friends, are aware of our situation and while they may not agree to it they accept it. Most of you will not be able to understand it but this works for us and I do not see it changing any time soon.

  • She's a w****

  • I knew my wife was occasionally seeing this one married black guy who used to s**** her before she and I got married, but I didn't know until recently that when she goes out on dates with him, he usually gives her to his friends, too. I hadn't heard the word before, but they call her a "passaround". It's a sickness but I can't hardly stop it.

  • You need to divorce that filthy diseased b****. Do it today.

  • My wife is one of those women who seem to attract black men to her like she was a magnet. They will just walk up to her and start flirting. I'd like to be able to shoot them.

  • I have never seen it happen, thank god, but my wife claims she been g********* by 6-8 black men before. and i know her parents would s***.....

  • Quick question, did you have your b**** surgically removed before the wedding or after??? You area cuckold, it will stay that way until you get away from her, but, being as you sound like a complete p****, why not invite them over to f*** her in front of you, then you can get the d*** taste right from his d***. I bet your wife would love that.

  • I know how it looks, I really do. Even some of my friends have said the same things to me. And although I know some guys are into all of that (and more), I couldn't do that. I stay with her because I truly love her and don't want to be without her, but if she started insisting that I do what you're describing, I would have to leave because I couldn't do that. I don't think it will come to that, but if it ever does, I'll go.

  • Well you can stay with her if you want to beut me I'd rather avoid possible stds and having my wife get knocked by another man. If my wife even suggested doing something like this she would soon be my ex wife.

  • You touched on the thing that is my greatest concern out of all of this. Not disease, but pregnancy. I really worry about her getting pregnant. I don't think she would do it, but I could certainly see her intentionally having one of her lovers knock her up. It would be mean for her to do it, but she is very capable of it. She has a mean streak. A very mean streak.

  • I hate to be the one to give you the bad news, but if your lady is dating blacks she is totally going to get pregnant, because (1) black men refuse to use condoms, (2) they don't allow their white partners to use any kind of pill or sponge or gel or anything like that, and (3) it wouldn't matter of they did because there's no pill or sponge or gel or anything AT ALL that can stop black s**** from finding it's way to the white womb. It's just nature. Get ready, dude: you will soon be raising black children.

  • My wife works as a manager at a hotel in the business district of the city we live in. At least once a week, she hooks up with one of the black male guests and winds up spending the night with him.

  • My situation is worse cuz I'm forced to watch them f*** her.

  • My wife doesn't do it but her older sister does. I have never understood and never will understand how she manages to keep her husband from leaving her but he hasn't left yet. She's okay-looking but not beautiful, and she's not all that terribly well built, but she can totally draw the black men. Totally. They are all over this woman.

  • This is weird to say but my first wife had a regular black bull and he f***** her constantly, and I divorced her for it, but now -- after fourteen years -- I've been married three more times and now I wish I had her back. She was the best f*** I ever had, and nobody else I've ever been with even comes close to my first wife. I f***** up and I have lived to regret divorcing her. I should of just let her have her fun and have her biracial babies and everything would of been fine. In stead everything is so NOT fine. I want her back. And I still love her.

  • I'm not married but I had a young girl move in with me over the summer and she does this too. Lots of blacks. I would kick her out but that p**** is just too f****** good to give up.

  • H***, yeah, that young p**** is amaaaaaaazing!!!! But all those young girls go black these days. All of them. It wasn't that way when I was younger, but it damn shore is now. Any time you see one out in public she got an older black guy or guys all over her ass.

  • The thing I hate the most when my wife comes home from a date with one or two of her black lovers is her making me kiss her so I can taste black d*** and black c**, and then making me suck her p**** clean of all the black c** she has in her. I hate that.

  • My wife does the same.She dosent even try to hide it.

  • Once u go black u can't go back

  • I know you meant that as a joke or as a cultural reference, but she's actually said those same words to me, more than once, and always with a smile on her face.

  • Divorse her ass unless your into it. Then I'd divorce her anyway because of aids.

  • I'm not into it at all. I hate it and I wish she would stop but she won't. I still love her and that's why I've stuck it out so far.

  • By "dates" you mean she has s** with them? I can't imagine that it matters not often, not many, or not white matters - the fact that other men penetrate your wife seems to be the big issue. What role do you play in this? Does she tell you details?

  • Yes, it is "full contact", as they say. I guess you are probably right about the frequency, yes, the fact alone is enough of an embarrassment and humiliation and I wish she wouldn't do it any more. Several of our friends know about her indiscretions, and some understandably think less of me for staying with her even though she cheats. It's humiliating. As for my role in her affairs, it's virtually none. And no, she doesn't share any details, although she does nothing to hide her desires, since she talks to the other men on her phone while at home, and she occasionally leaves the house in the middle of the night to go be with one of them. But no, she doesn't talk about the other relationships she participates in with these other men.

  • How often do you f*** her

  • Although I sleep with her every night -- well, all the nights she spends at home -- we rarely have s** anymore, and even when we do, it's just s**, not lovemaking. She makes love with her blacks because they drive her to "heights of arousal" (this is how she talks now) that I never have and never could. If you're asking for a number, the s** is maybe once a month, but some months it's zero.

  • I read your narration with deep sense of empathy. A lot of folks have had enough confusion from a "confused world" to last for a life time! Lack of "personal identity" can bore oneself sick even to having suicide thoughts . Have I once considered suicide in my life? Yes and indeed, many folks you see that walk the streets are full of challenges and pains that were inflicted or innate. In my own case, in my teens , I thought I will not be able to achieve anything because I was abused as a child , lived in a home that always felt like an explosive device was about to ignite. I struggled with these feelings and tried to fill the void via alcohol and "street smokes". I found fake boldness that was transient. I envied and wanted to be like others. I began to steal. Well, I am an adult now, well educated, employed, married, had kids, drug/alcohol/smoke free, and really free from all my demons. How? Yes, I know that this will be the question in your heart. It sounded foolish and dreamlike but it was real. Someone gave me a copy of "New Testament and Psalms and proverbs"; a little blue covered book which could fit into my pocket. It was published by Gideon international. I began to read it from "The Gospel of John" like he advised me. I love reading and it made sense. Well, I may not be able to tell you all that happened to me but I discovered that as I read it daily, I began to be attracted to and talk to the main character in the story; Jesus and it seemed like and old self of mine was dropping off daily. At some point , I was shocked when I was out with my friends and realized that I hadn't touched alcohol in the past 2 weeks! And the stranger thing was that alcohol lost its appeal to me. In fact, it disgusted me. My friends told me that they will "give me just three months" and I will drink myself to stupor like before. well it has been years and I keep getting better; more pleasant than the person I ever tried to be. Jesus is beautiful.

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