BabyDaddie Issues

I moved in with my babydaddie who was my bf at the time in April of 2015. He left me when I was 9 months pregnant (Sep 2015) to go marry some other girl that I had caught him kissing 3 weeks prior. He moved out and now I am raising my son by myself. It is super hard, and at times I feel like I am never going to find someone who is truly going to love me or my son, and I really wish my son could have a father figure in his life. The only thing thay keeps my life going right now is my son. Id be lost without him.

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  • LOL I feel bad for your kid. Having an incredibly stupid woman as a 'mother' who literally believes she lives for no other reason than to cater to her b****** son.

  • You have rights.
    And although he left after you had his baby.
    He still as to pay you towards the upkeep of the baby.

  • I'm really very sorry that you're having to deal with this incredibly difficult situation. Just know that there are good men out there, men who will love you and your son, but don't be anxious or sad because you haven't found one of them yet. You will! Just start looking, but do NOT be in a hurry. Go to parents-without-partners meetings, volunteer for charity work, get involved in a church, all of which are places where there are men. Put yourself out there, let people see how sweet and focused and intelligent you are, and how devoted you are to your child, and once you've done that, good things will start happening. I'm not saying you'll be married within a few months, or any fixed period of time, but I think this movement alone will give you a sense of hope, and then when men start responding to you (for the right reasons, not just for sexual reasons), you will be comforted and encouraged about what the future may hold for you and your family. You were treated horribly by your child's father, but better things await you, I just know it. Best wishes.

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