Considering cheating...

About a week ago, an old high school got into contact with me and friended me on Facebook. My wife of one year asked me about her and friended her as well. Since then, they've become good friends. What my wife doesn't know is before me and this friend parted ways so long ago, we confessed our feelings towards each other and missed out on an opportunity. Well, last week, this friend came over and drank with my wife. I don't drink so I just sat back and watched. My wife got too drunk and passed out so I put her in bed and I stayed up with my friend and we just talked and you would be blind if you could see the feelings between us just going off constantly. Nothing happened that night but after she sobered up, I walked her to her car and saw her off. Since then, I can't stop thinking about her. My wife confessed to me that my friend still had feelings for me but my wife thinks she wouldn't step in our marriage. We both are perfectly capable and able to get away with anything but I just don't know. All I know is I can't stop thinking about my friend and how it could've been.

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  • If she told your wife that means she wants you to know how she feels and she wants you to make a move. So........MAKE A MOVE! What are you waiting on? Go get on that!!!!!!!!

  • I've been down this road, don't do it, she is either in cahoots with your wife or that stuff will come back to bite you later. You married your wife for a reason. Remember what that reason is and tell your wife you don't think it's appropriate for her to come around any longer.

  • Invite her back over again for more drinks. Roofie your wife and then when she passes out make love with your girlfriend in the bed you share with your wife while your wife is passed out on the floor. Your first time making love with your girlfriend should be in the bed where you sleep with your wife. I'm a woman and believe me . . . your girlfriend will never forget that you were so bold that first time. She will always ALWAYS love you for that.

  • This is too sexy to just let it go without seeing what happens. Have the affair. You want it. She wants it. Go get her like she belongs to you.

  • Wait a sec.. about a week ago this friend contacted you..and now in those same 7 days your wife and her are good friends? And also last week she came by and drank with her new best friend. This is fake.

  • I got my wording and times mixed up but I assure this is not fake. But, then again, you can believe what you wanna believe.

  • I agree with those encouraging you to go for it. Cheating used to be a big deal, but it's not anymore. Everybody cheats. S** is for fun, not forever. Enjoy this warm wonderful woman, and revel in the fact that she and your wife are now friends: that will TOTALLY sweeten and deepen the relationship. Good luck to you and her!!!!

  • I love the fact that reached out to her and she immediately reached back to you. Now take the next step. And the one after that. And the one after that.

  • You have to find out. You have to go and get with her. Perhaps more than just once. You can't spend the rest of your life wondering "what if". It's clear that you and the friend want each other desperately, so . . . get with her. Stop wasting time. Stop wasting life.

  • Your wife is already suspicious and you're probably not that smart to pull it off. It wouldn't be just one time. You had your chance before you were married and it didn't happen. The grass isn't always greener...

  • It's never that easy. If you cheat and decide you want her...then what? You probably have a house, and maybe children with your wife. Is alimony a thing where you live? What if you cheat and decide you want your wife more, but the other woman wants you? What if she tells your wife? I understand why you want to do this, but I am not sure it's worth it under the circumstances.

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