Want to be parent? Don't Do It!

Parenthood is a trap!! A trap placed into a pretty box and wrapped with an even prettier bow. Even on good days, those days when you're reminded of the love you have for your child, it still feels like a trap. Like having a good paying job but never having the time to travel. Except you're not paid, and the bad often outweighs the good. Save yourselves! No one told me what it would be like. What it would REALLY feel like, to be a parent. The world likes to fill people's heads with the fabrication of a fairy tale life after someone becomes a parent. But no one has the b**** to say it stinks. Like a punishment. Think back to a job you had that you absolutely hated. Now imagine you were never allowed to leave that job. Never. Ever. I can be as humorous or as heavy about this as possible. But it will always be the truth. I have a few years left of being the hands-on parent (child is nearly 18). After that... life. Living. Hysterectomy. I knew it was a trap from day one. But I've made it this far. Though with a few close call mental breakdowns in between. Heed my warning. Really think about it. Lay down the fuzzy feel you get when you're around kids, or the pressure you're getting from family and friends and really, really think about it. All the best to you.

Jul 24, 2016

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  • You're right, parenthood is not for everybody. I always knew, even when I was very young that I wasn't cut out for it. I never had kids, and now that I'm in my 50s, I'm more certain thane ever that I made the right decision.

  • You are right thanks for the warning

  • Hi. I totally agree with you and thank you for your honesty. I thought about having a kid (I'm a woman), but then reality hit and I said no way! To be honest with you, I have an issue. Because I was raped and have been abused by men in the past, I have a little problem with them; even babies and toddlers. Seeing their little penises makes me angry for some reason, and I want to hurt them. I am addicted to watching circumcision videos and love to hear them scream b***** murder when they're being cut. It makes me happy, but I wish I was the one doing the cutting. Having a male child would be a huge mistake for me, and I know this. I used to be a Doninatrix, and have been in extreme s&m videos where I have pretended to mutilate guys penises and b****. Loved it. I hate little boys, and don't know what I'd do if I got pregnant and had one. I'd abort "it," but refuse to put myself in that situation to begin with!

  • I agree.Seek psychiatric,counselling or psychological therapy!!

  • ^^^^ please seek psychiatric help. PLEASE!

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