I'm Scared my friends secretly hate me

I started uni this year and have a great group of friends, but i'm scared they all secretly hate me. I over analyse and interpret every tiny little thing that might indicate they don't like me and I am so worried they all wish I would go away but are too nice to say anything. I think maybe part of the reason is because I don't like one of the girls all that much myself but I think I hide it pretty well. Every night I think over everything that I have said that probably wasn't funny, and that they probable heard what I said but ignored it, and i'm too scared to ask them in case they think i'm weird or pathetic

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  • I would secretly hate you too

  • Things like this tend to become self-fulfilling prophecies. The more you expect them to hate you, the more crazy stuff you will do that pushes them away. If you relax, then you seem more confident and fun to be around, and it draws people in. You can't make people like you, and you can't change who you are. You can fake it for a little while, but eventually the real you will come out. So one way or another, you're going to end up being yourself and people are going to like you or not. There's no sense worrying about it, just be yourself and accept whatever consequences there are for that.

  • Thanks :) everything your saying is right, I do need to relax a bit

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