Marital Society I am not perfect .. going through ups, downs, turmoil, drama, physical fights, hurtful words, and routine s** burned me out, and it turned me off to a point where I don't care about being the ideal husband anymore. I get tired of this fake image we have to uphold, in order to avoid being judged for doing things thats noted as unacceptable .. No I don't go out with prostitutes, No I don't meet women off Craigslist for NSA s**, No I don't pick up random women off the street, No I don't flirt with her sisters or any of her family at that .. the only thing I have a problem with is fighting off temptation and giving in to seduction .. ive had female friends that like to seduce me & i admit Ive given in for the thrill & for the good time .. Its not that I dont give a f*** about the relationship its just that I have friends who want me to enjoy their company to ... why is it ok to say i love my mercedes but I also love my Lexus in terms of cars? however its a problem if i were to say i luv having a significant other but I also love enjoying time with my friends in terms of female company? Therefore I am not the perfect ideal husband and I dont care to be .. I literally take life as it comes I'm just hoping it doesn't bite me in the ass later on .. can anybody else relate?