Am I be used?
I met this guy a couple months ago and dating him is like dating a married man. He barely has time to see me, communicates only through text and seems embarrassed to be affectionate with me in public.
We have only had s** twice and the second time was kind of a rush job in case his boss/landlord came back and caught us. I'm a 50 year old woman but he won't introduce me because he "likes to keep his private life, private". He is living in this house while remodeling it. He is consumed with work and only takes a few hours off once a week to see a movie with me.
I feel like an insecure, whiny old b**** because I want to see him more than once a week! I am overweight and feel unattractive. He is a lean, attractive man from Trinidad.
None of my relationships have ever been normal. Most guys I ended up with were drunks, druggies or just lazy bums. This guy is none of them, but is a workaholic.
He claims he likes me, but wants to just take it a day at a time and see what happens. Supposedly, his boss is going to go to Florida for the winter, but she isn't making any indications of going yet! If she leaves we can spend a lot more time together.