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Naughty Side .. Why must ** be demonized?
Ive got a naughty side and if my significant other knew how naughty i've been it would devastate her .. i mean why must ** be so demonized? How come connections have to come with some of the most ugliest labels? ive been trying to tell her for years and she just doesn't hear me & not only that I'm just not ready to completely out myself yet but then again idk if i should because i cant afford a divorce and a place to fall back on b/c i know ill get kicked out .. not only that it'll hurt my kids the most ..so the way i see it is sure i can out myself and "come clean" but i feel it'll just make things worse .. compared to living in secrecy getting ready to have another great holiday .. Yeah I live "the life" .. domestic on one side and naughty on the other ..let me put it this way whenever I party behind closed doors, it ain't no sausage fest just booze babes & bud been doing it for years & i mean years ...
Ok. By telling your wife, what are you hoping to achieve? Do you want her to join in your sexual escapades or do you want her to accept what you're doing, giving you her blessing, so you'll feel less guilt when ** about?
And why mention divorce, if you're considering telling your wife? You either want to stay married and confess or you want to confess so you can get a divorce. If it's the latter, divorce your wife and don't confess your dirty cheating deeds, why hurt and humiliate her, as well as probably devastating her.
What's your deal
If I were you....first take a deep breath, stop whatever you are doing and concentrate on your life, that you do not want to lose, seek some therapy and above all be a man and appreciate what you have. If you watch **...stop....if you think out of the ordinary...stop, concentrate, go to therapy....you are man who is obviously loved by a woman, and believe me, there are a lot of men who would love to be in your shoes...CONCENTRATE, don't lose your life.