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Taboo couple?
I used to be a super nice girl next door type. I was good at school and wasn't that interested in partying. I never even had a boyfriend. When I turned 15 I wanted to get some job to get some extra money so I contacted this old man (61yo) who had an ad in locals looking for a house cleaner. It was easy, once a week thing so it fit my needs perfectly.
Two years passed and we became pretty good friends aswell. I picked a job at the store but kept the cleaning job too. Nothing too special until he had traffic accident. He wanted to get home from hospital as soon as possible despite the recommendations. He offered me more work to help him out... Cooking, laundry and some help washing himself. I didn't think too much about it before taking his offer as we had grown pretty close.
Spending more time with him and seeing him naked witch occasional erections while helping to wash him more or less woke up the woman inside and he sure had something going on too, having girls hand all over his naked body.
We both were silent about it, except there started to be more flirting on both our sides and our relationship got more physical. Just hugging and some kisses on cheeks.
I continued the cleaning, cooking and laundering despite he had gotten all better.
Things escalated on my 18th birthday. Celebrated with my family a bit and the next day I went to work at the store like normally, and after that I went to do my housewife/maid stuff. He had bought some sparkling wine to celebrate me and it didn't take much until I got bit drunk. Never had more than glass or two of wine before. Plenty of talking, flirting, hugging and laughter ensued and everything got more sensual after second bottle. Hugs came more brave and touchy, kisses on cheeks became real kisses which was first time I kissed with anyone. I felt so alive even though I was drunk. Our way ended up to bedroom to where I had earlier changed sheets. I knew where things were heading and I had no intentions to interrupt the natural flow.
To me it felt simply amazing to have mans hands on me as I never had boyfriend before. First time getting drunk, first kiss and about to lose my virginity to an old man to whom I apparently had crush on. I loved it and I thin he enjoyed it more than I did.
It had been years and years since he had a woman in his bed, let alone allowing him to release himself inside.
Now, 2 years later we spend even more time together. He proposed to me a week after he took my virginity and month later we got married (not officially but more in a symbolic way as we both are into traditional family roles).
We know our relationship is on the taboo side due our age gap but we don't let that bother us.
I finished highschool and as I still don't know what I want to study so I still work at the store. The house cleaning and cooking and other household things are now my duties as a wife. We have toyed about the thought of me becoming a housewife/mom until figuring out what career I want but we know it's not that good idea. But still we do think about it because he has made me pregnant several times already as we don't use condoms and I'm not on birthcontrol. We both want babies but really undecided if we should listen to reason or our hearts.
So yeah. What happened to me... Girl doing well in school and having great possibilities for life, now still enjoying life but considering to become a housewife and have a baby with a significantly older man.
(Please, hating people can keep to themselves. I just wanted to let my mind out in the open. I'm not regretting anything, just wondering life)
I am jealous of that relationship. As an older guy I love that she is so young and no birth control used. That is how it should be.
If you've become pregnant a couple of times, where are your children? Did you abort them?
I believe age is irrelevant, when love is involved. However, within your situation, I find it disconcerting. It's almost like he groomed you. How do you know, he didn't want you from when you was 15 years old and set the plans in motion over the years until you was 18, so he could become your lover?
You're 18 and he is 63 or 64, he's had his life and does deserve happiness, everyone does and you do as well.
But, to date an 18 year old whose life has just begun, is wrong on so many levels!! You wasn't even a speck on the horizon, when he was your age!
It's only my opinion and I wish you both continued loved and happiness, I truly do. But if a young stud passes you by and there's chemistry between you two, don't deny yourself or him x
Where are you from? English doesn't seem like your native tongue.
I agree